"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reccomend some good hobbies & tips for self-improvement..

Tha Realnezz

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Not neccesarily for picking up girls but life in general:

Personally I think it's crazy that men don't know how to drive stick or change tires..

So if you're stuck in an emergency you won't get away cuz the car is stickshift?That's sorta embarassing to me..I can understand how guys forget how to change tires cuz usually people need help with that and never fully do one by themselves.But guys that i see trynna to take the bolts off by themselves (lol)..I wannna slap..

How to conduct yourself at a dinner table is extremley important..Beleive it or not women pay attention to things like that.And the ones that don't ..follow your lead.I don't reccomend some etiquette class,no,but grab a prissy girl cousin or a even a gay guy you know and sit him or her down and explain your situation..

Try to visit a different country.I've been to DR,Spain,France,and jamaica so far.At least get out of the state you're in once in awhile and hit up a major city..

Follow or pratice some sports I'm into boxing right now and want to get into some MMA.Basketball is a love of mines although I do not follow it..

Learn another language:I know english,spanish and I took some classes in portuguese and French..and plan on brushing up.

Re-up on your jewelery.Cheap jewlery is for women.Why?Cuz they're allowed to wear tons of it,all the time.Men break out some stuff here and there so it shouldn't be cheap ****.

Time-peices especially..

Read something.I put away four novels last year..Now,i'm going for one every three months.

Add on,guys..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its been beaten to death but exercising/weight lifting.

~After working out for awhile(9 months), my body was in shape,enough to have people make comments & enough for me to be able to outlift anyone(upper body) in my weight area. There is a certain confidence factor that I gained from lifting.

Eat healthy!

~No more ice cream,ho hos and twinkies. Ever since I started eating "right" I noticed that I started to feel ALOT better about myself. Now anytime that I eat junk food I do not quiet feel right as I know it only harms all the time I put in the gym. If anything do not eat it because it shortens your life span.
 

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^Yeah i'm trynna cut out junkfood from now on.Thing is I don't cook many dishes and there's no decent plances to eat for cheap miles from here..
 

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You already touched on a lot of good stuff.

Things I did is to make sure I knew a little bit about foriegn foods, at least how to read/pronounce menu standard fares in French and Spanish. Knowing wine basics, and at least one good wine you can order. Shows a little class.

Comedy Classes, Public Speaking (Toastmasters or Classes), woodworking (I admit to not being very good at this, but I've learned how to make some cool gifts with very limited resources), Dance Classes (Salsa is easy to find and works well for me).

Any kind of martial arts. If you're worried about your appearance, you could consider a non-striking form. I used to do grappling (may start up again) this REALLY keeps a man in shape.

I think it depends on goals too, if you like the forest critters, then maybe join some audobon group and meet chicks who dig the woods. Kill two birds with one stone,. I deplore anything tha soils my shoes, so that advice would be terrible for me.

Those are some basics.
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
^Yeah i'm trynna cut out junkfood from now on.Thing is I don't cook many dishes and there's no decent plances to eat for cheap miles from here..
Same here so you know what I did?

I had someone teach me how to bake chicken,good source of protein since I work out. I also eat sandwhiches,bagels,toast & eggs,fruits and vegetables,pasta & Mac & Cheese. Yep thats about it. Its gone on for a month now and I have noticed my bodyfat has dropped some already. Its funny though,everytime I go to eat out with friends and such I bring my own chicken and I only eat appetizers and drink water at the meal. My friends say "Your obsessed",I respond with "Nope,I just don't want a gut like you" and smile.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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