"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LegendBoy

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Okay hooked up with a girl yesterday and felt her up(breasts,ass). Were together for about 4 hours was quite fun too.

Today at school I was chilling with her, took her to corridors. And I was feeling her up she said nothing I kiss her on cheek and she don't mind. I go to hook up she says she can't because she likes her ex lol wtf. I say " Fvck him he is a piece of shyt" and I try again. Then she says I can't do this when I am thinking of him.

I tell her that I can go to another chick and that I am spending my time with her. She says, go ahead then. I try to kiss her one more time, she moves. So I say okay cya l8r. lol.

Then I get a msg saying "sorry". Thats all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I feel ya mate. Almost the exact same thing happened to me recently.

My response was to just go for someone else and not talk to this girl, which by the way recently broke up with her "online BF" which she never met and was quite broken up about it. She also gave another guy a BJ, and she ended up asking out and hooking up with this 3rd guy that she says she liked for 2 years.

Just move on and avoid the girl, and be glad that you had the fun that you did. If you see her around and she still talks to ya, just bust on her and act like the whole episode never happened. If she still resists, then who cares. By then you should be with another girl.
 

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MAN leave her while u can

dont get invloved with her, i bet she still has baggage.. these chicks arent fun to play with, dont even pay any attention to her
 

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LegendBoy said:
You know whats funny it was her bf of 4 weeks. LOL
You aren’t playing hard to get enough bro...
Or she wouldn't have said "I still have feelings for my ex..."
She wants her ex because HE DOESN"T WANT HER. heh...
Give her a challenge and keep her challenged!

Next time show less affection, especially in public, make her earn your affection... smile at/flirt with other women around her... I could go on and on and on... practice makes perfect... I'm still learning that's for sure...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LegendBoy

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Yo. Yes it is a peculiar situation. I mean I am ****ing way too good looking for it. Man I was pretty mad when she wouldn't hook up. I tried not showing it. But I said flat out " [Girls Name] you understand that I am spending time with you and I could be with another girl, so don't be like this". And I was so fvcking arrogant sayn **** like I am the best looking guy that has ever talked to you. lol.. That was over the top but wateva.

I will be seeing next on Wednesday, what you's say go for hook up again?
 

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Man... a chick like this... don't even sweat!

Keep it DJ Don Rico... if she wants some, let her put the work in.
No need to be an arrogant d!ck though... thats little.
Just be a man of value, self-respect and class.

How could she (or any woman for that matter) resist such a quality king?
(unless its not meant to be... which is perfectly fine in itself)

Keep it... fun-loving, suave, G', PIMP!
Thats my perspective, on things.
 

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Cheers for responses..

Though wouldn't you's think surely a bf or 4 weeks wouldn't have to much control. I mean I would presume she is interested in me due to what happened? Anyway I wonder if I should try iniate more hooking up or what do I do? I mean want to get some pvssy out of her...

Its funny how the ex always has so much control, I mean I was with this other girl a while back and I dumped her, then would call out of the blue get some more head jobs, and she would always come back it was kind of funny how I pulled the strings. Fvcking emotional creatures.
 

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You could reverse the whole frame on her.

She has you under the... "No, I'm still thinking about my ex" resistance.
Why not just flip it!?

You: "I don't know... just not really feeling you, like I thought I was. Maybe its cause your not the level of girl I thought you were, and your still just tripping on some dude in the past... but thats cool... just tells me I don't want to be with you. So you go do your thing."

Some message/feeling like that. Might totally fvck with her perception of things, lol. But with that said... after making a statement like that... you'd have to be totally committed to truly never hooking up w. her again... if such is the response.

But maybe before you throw down such a definitive speech... you might want to convey that through your actions. Try this... be aloof, and could care less bout her. Not mean... just conciously indifferent, and on your own trip kinda thing.

Cause I think she thinks... your gonna be all up on her jock everytime now. So I'd pump the breaks, and let her think different. See what kinda reaction that gets. Guage your next step from there. It might just pull her interest back into you.
 
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