I have a question...
If you're friends with a girl... I mean you have sex but it wasn't any good so you just carried on doing bf gf things... like chill with the parents or share in a favorite hobby... if you have that type of relationship... and then the girl suddenly out of the blue... like just two weeks prior to her telling you she has a bf you're out taking her shopping like husband and wife... is that new relationship a rebound?
My friend who has witnessed the relationship over time by listening to my rants tells she she felt something serious and she got scared and jumped into something that was fun and Flirty... my bad.. I smothered her... but that's another topic
Is it a rebound? Any thoughts?
P.S. she is very adamant about stating that the relationship is a friendship but over time she has said things or done things that make me think she likes me
She has introduced me to almost her entire family
I have met some of her friends
She has stood up for me to her friends
She has allowed me to sleep with her on more them one occasion but I haven't been the greatest lover
She has compared our relationship to her previous marriage
She completely trusts me or trusts me an extreme amount because she has admitted very deep secrets to me about herself
When harrassed after initially telling me about the new bf she got progressively more and more defensive ... and crazy.. saying things that were probably exhagerations or untrue just to get me to leave her alone... so my smothering must of got her to snap and do this... after a week of no contact she became somewhat normal again...
Another question
What do I do?
If I ignore her and stop talking to her she warms up over time... but when we talk and chill... if we can.. like we used to... we seem to get closer and closer...
The last message I received
I'm sorry but I really can't see you today
This is after I messaged her asking to see her, she said we could meet, I harrassed her with messages about how I love her more then the new bf, she basically ignored me for a day or two, then sent me that message when I asked to see her again
Help
PLEASE
Double P.S.
The only solid information I have on the new guy is that they only really hangout once a week and its probably purely physical because she spends the night
If you're friends with a girl... I mean you have sex but it wasn't any good so you just carried on doing bf gf things... like chill with the parents or share in a favorite hobby... if you have that type of relationship... and then the girl suddenly out of the blue... like just two weeks prior to her telling you she has a bf you're out taking her shopping like husband and wife... is that new relationship a rebound?
My friend who has witnessed the relationship over time by listening to my rants tells she she felt something serious and she got scared and jumped into something that was fun and Flirty... my bad.. I smothered her... but that's another topic
Is it a rebound? Any thoughts?
P.S. she is very adamant about stating that the relationship is a friendship but over time she has said things or done things that make me think she likes me
She has introduced me to almost her entire family
I have met some of her friends
She has stood up for me to her friends
She has allowed me to sleep with her on more them one occasion but I haven't been the greatest lover
She has compared our relationship to her previous marriage
She completely trusts me or trusts me an extreme amount because she has admitted very deep secrets to me about herself
When harrassed after initially telling me about the new bf she got progressively more and more defensive ... and crazy.. saying things that were probably exhagerations or untrue just to get me to leave her alone... so my smothering must of got her to snap and do this... after a week of no contact she became somewhat normal again...
Another question
What do I do?
If I ignore her and stop talking to her she warms up over time... but when we talk and chill... if we can.. like we used to... we seem to get closer and closer...
The last message I received
I'm sorry but I really can't see you today
This is after I messaged her asking to see her, she said we could meet, I harrassed her with messages about how I love her more then the new bf, she basically ignored me for a day or two, then sent me that message when I asked to see her again
Help
PLEASE
Double P.S.
The only solid information I have on the new guy is that they only really hangout once a week and its probably purely physical because she spends the night
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