"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reasons for not having a serious relationship

Jizz

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So me and this gal were getting on quite well, we live quite far away and weve met once, so most of our chatting has been on phone/msn/texting

So tonite i was basically getting serious with her, telling her i wanted an honest answer does she wanna meet up etc

she said she didnt feel comfterable coming down on her own (last time we met was with her friends) so we should just leave it

i said well no worries, but just want you to know that your not some gal i wanna hook up with, i actually like you

she said she didnt wanna ruin a friendship with a relationship that wouldnt work because of distance

she said it would be fun for one day but thats it

i asked if distance was the only reason she said

No its because of (our mutual friend) (because basically shes the reason we met and she likes me 2), because its the hardest year of her life (exams and last yr at skool) because she doesnt want another serious relationship after the last one (bad break up) but distance is the main one

so basically it doesnt sound like it was anything to do with me but if a gal gave you any or all 4 of these reasons as a reason why she doesnt want a serious relationship what would you think?

cheers
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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lol

Get your flame-proof suit on. This is gonna hurt.

You should turn around and walk away. She doesn't want to be with you. I'm not gonna explain why, someone elese can do that but the reasons are pretty obvious.
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Jizz
if a gal gave you any or all 4 of these reasons as a reason why she doesnt want a serious relationship what would you think?

cheers

i'd think i'm glad i wore skivvies under my kilt today because she's blowing smoke up it.
 

nishbuk

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Your out man. So far out it's not even funny. She's not attracted to you, and she does not want to have sex with you. What she said is as clear as the sun from apollo 13. Move on, guy. There is nothing left that you can do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuanMonk

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Please don't post anymore Jizz, your posts suck ass royally. Go read the DJ Bible, jerk off to some porn, but don't talk about your life here ever again.
 
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