Reasons for dumping a woman

[RagingBalls]

Years ago, I had been in a relationship with this girl for about a year. At first it was going well until later on, her mood swings began to show up. I was a little AFC back then and try to understand her with the best i can. But, it doesn't make things right. I also noticed her manipulative ways and most of all, her showing actions of disrespect. Until I had enough and told her i will not take any more of her sh1t and i walked away...never had any regret doing it. She begs me to come back, that's she'll change...but i said no. that we're done and i never looked back.

I dumped her because there's no more respect from her,that and her mood swings and manipulative ways made me walked away from her.

Don't tolerate disrespect. Leave at the first sign of it.

 

[adam225]

If she isn't bring you any positives, then she should be dumped. No excuses....

 

[TheException]

Don't tolerate disrespect.

I agree with this statement....but I think a conversation is to be had about what really constitutes "disrespect". Some members on this forum think that if a woman:

-has plans with her friends but doesnt cancel on them, in order to hang out with you...its disrespect
-sh1t tests you.....its disrespect
-talks to any member of the opposite sex....its disrespect
-doesnt text back immediately and makes you wait around for a response...its disrespect.

I could go on all day but I think my point is made. Your situation definitely warranted a breakup....but too many members think women's behavior is overly sh1tty...when its really not. They mask their insecurities as "the woman acting disrespectful".

 

[RagingBalls]

I agree with this statement....but I think a conversation is to be had about what really constitutes "disrespect". Some members on this forum think that if a woman:

-has plans with her friends but doesnt cancel on them, in order to hang out with you...its disrespect
-sh1t tests you.....its disrespect
-talks to any member of the opposite sex....its disrespect
-doesnt text back immediately and makes you wait around for a response...its disrespect.

I could go on all day but I think my point is made. Your situation definitely warranted a breakup....but too many members think women's behavior is overly sh1tty...when its really not. They mask their insecurities as "the woman acting disrespectful".

One of the wake up call for me was, later on she's constantly finding faults in everything i do, it's not constructive criticism but more of making me looked like mr.wrong and she was ms. right.
I had enough when she later whines that i had made bad decisions that sucks. I remember right at that moment i just blurted out: "yer right, i had made decisions and take risks in life but i don't regret any of those when things don't go as planned as i learned from them. But this one's i'm sure of, i'm making the right decision right now, that i'm tired of your sh1t." then i walked away from her and moved on with my dignity preserved.