"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've met a girl, i think i fell in love with her.
I don't understand 'why' but theres something special about her.

I realy don't understand or she's attracted to me.
These things happend:
- One time i walked her home, she hitted my arm like five times, she pulled my hand, pushed me in some bushes:p and i had a realy good time.
-she asked me to warm her hands because she had it cold.
-she leans with her head on my shoulders.
-I made a regular paper boat and she took it from me and said that she would put it in her room?
-And she can't stop playing with my sweater. (the ropes)
-yea and we had some eyecontact

Are these signs?
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Now this is the problem.
One 'playa' is after her and he always goes to her in the schoolbrakes, even lunch. And after the converstation with him she acts like a 'bi*ch' to me. She stops lauging and then i have to make her laugh again and make her not hate me.
When we came with the bus, she asked me or i'll walk her home again and i saw a friend of mine so i stopped to talk with him.
And when i turned she went away with a bunch of tough guys.

She left her phone number but i didn't want to call her.
Now this is my question, is she attracted to me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Obvious signs to say at the least! Don't take too much advantage of these signs. Show some interest, and withdraw a little don't give her too much of anything.
 
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ok but why is she sometimes a bi*ch to me?:eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh yea that's not a joke.
Normally i never fall in love:eek:
 
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I'm in the process of being nonverbally bi*ched at. lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn today my friend ruined it for me.
He was listening to some music. And he was screaming and jumping like an idiot.
She tought it was funny, now she doesn't sit with me and i look laik an ass. What should i do?:crackup:
 
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Your worrying to much about her….which is most likely being portrayed in your personality. Now could you somehow explain to me how you can “fall in love” with a girl who (at least it looks like it) haven’t spent time with to get to know, or you just met?.

Regardless on the case you should stop worrying so much about her, if it doesn’t work out then so what its no big deal, you don’t want to look obsessed. And who cares if she wont sit with you for a few days, its not like your blind and you need help to walk or anything.

Oh.....one last thing......STOP THINKING SO MUCH ABOUT THE THINGS SHE SAYS OR DOES.
 
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I don't care but i realy DON'T want to look like an ass.
My friend jumps and acts like an idiot & she thinks it's funny.
And I now walk like a doggy behind them or in front when were together. So it's they in the front & me in the back. Now it's a sort of contest between me & my friend about who get's her first.
Were now going together someone out.
So i'll do my best & wish me luck.

BTW: have some advice?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You better hit that extra gear if you want a chance. By the way it seems you act like a pus*ified biatch. Grow some balls, dont act like a tool and get what you want.
 
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Thank you DON JUAN:cheer:
i'm growing my balls right now! lol
 
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Brian Fantana: I think I was in love once.
Ron Burgundy: Really? What was her name?
Brian Fantana: I don't remember.
Ron Burgundy: That's not a good start, but keep going...
Brian Fantana: She was Brazilian, or Chinese, or something weird. I met her in the bathroom of a K-Mart and we made out for hours. Then we parted ways, never to see each other again.
Ron Burgundy: I'm pretty sure that's not love.
Brian Fantana: Damn it!

LOL Anchorman...
 
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