"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Realy wana have her or lett her go

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rapsta

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wzup .... i have a litle problem that make me confuzed :rolleyes: ..
i meet this girl 1 yr ago and we been intach and stayed in tach seeing echather in cubs , haveing a good time ,,, she had a boy so i didt make a muve on her ,and the talking thing has been going on good since then ,make her smile , in general she likes being with me and we are good frensd discas everthing talk abauth sex all that stuff ,she broke upp with her boy ,,,and now she is single .. i like her and i love the time spending with her .. she knoes that i do like her and she call me resently and sayes that she like me to. Now , she sayes that she does not wana go into anything serious becouse she broke upp with him and sayes that all men are the same .. they wana have u and then will lett u go ,she waths me to tray harder or make her belive,or see eachather 4 same time and then get into samething , i have to admit i like her and everytime i am with her i fill like
eating her upp :whistle: i have same on the side , but its just u like 4 fun and inpruving yr skils , but this one is a litle triky one ... i dont know wath to do ,shud i just continue seeing her and go on with the things ,,, go with the flow and wath cames cames or , heat on ather girls in her presents like in a club ... u tell me ... :) :up: :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

Desdinova

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Holy christ that was hard to read. Either English isn't your first language, or you just suck at spelling.

i meet this girl 1 yr ago
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Forget about her. You have one-itis, and you're stuck in the friend zone. She will never fvck you. EVER. Move onto greener pastures.
 
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Bourne

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The guy is from sweden, but again his name is rapsta. So I think its a combination of both.

Post made me laugh, not at what it was about but the spelling and word structure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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