"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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really want to have this girl

Ramees

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Hi
I will fill in my profile details later.
I have known this girl for 6 months now. she is 24 years old, not dating any one and a very friendly girl. i have tried to ask her out but she refused and said that she did not want to waste anyone's time as she did not want to have sex etc.
I tried the usual stuff of getting to know each other and going slowly but she was like as I had sexual interest in her so there's no point in being friendly etc.
Any points or tips to make her come round.

Ah, she is not lesbian , if that is what you are wondering.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lexington

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You obviously haven't read the DJ bible. You should read it.

That being said, you should forget about this girl. She has no interest in you. Maybe she has no sexual interest in general or maybe she just doesn't have sexual interest in you. Either way, you're not going to get any so don't waste your time.

Go after other girls and you'll soon realize that vaginas are eminently replaceable. You'll find other girls who are as good or better than this one and it will make you realize how foolish you were for caring so much for a girl who wasn't even interest in you.
 

DMSR76

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Lexington said:
You obviously haven't read the DJ bible. You should read it.

That being said, you should forget about this girl. She has no interest in you. Maybe she has no sexual interest in general or maybe she just doesn't have sexual interest in you. Either way, you're not going to get any so don't waste your time.

Go after other girls and you'll soon realize that vaginas are eminently replaceable. You'll find other girls who are as good or better than this one and it will make you realize how foolish you were for caring so much for a girl who wasn't even interest in you.
Excellent advice. Short and to the point.
 
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