"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ramees

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Hi
I will fill in my profile details later.
I have known this girl for 6 months now. she is 24 years old, not dating any one and a very friendly girl. i have tried to ask her out but she refused and said that she did not want to waste anyone's time as she did not want to have sex etc.
I tried the usual stuff of getting to know each other and going slowly but she was like as I had sexual interest in her so there's no point in being friendly etc.
Any points or tips to make her come round.

Ah, she is not lesbian , if that is what you are wondering.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lexington

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You obviously haven't read the DJ bible. You should read it.

That being said, you should forget about this girl. She has no interest in you. Maybe she has no sexual interest in general or maybe she just doesn't have sexual interest in you. Either way, you're not going to get any so don't waste your time.

Go after other girls and you'll soon realize that vaginas are eminently replaceable. You'll find other girls who are as good or better than this one and it will make you realize how foolish you were for caring so much for a girl who wasn't even interest in you.
 
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Lexington said:
You obviously haven't read the DJ bible. You should read it.

That being said, you should forget about this girl. She has no interest in you. Maybe she has no sexual interest in general or maybe she just doesn't have sexual interest in you. Either way, you're not going to get any so don't waste your time.

Go after other girls and you'll soon realize that vaginas are eminently replaceable. You'll find other girls who are as good or better than this one and it will make you realize how foolish you were for caring so much for a girl who wasn't even interest in you.
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Excellent advice. Short and to the point.
 
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