"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it just me or women getting thirstier every day?

Every new plate I am spinning seems thirsty, insecure and jealous. They start out chill, confident and fun. Once I hang out with them a couple of times their mindsets change.

I tell every plate that I am not looking for a relationship, just someone fun to hang out with. They are all ok with it until they start acting like crazy b!tches a couple of weeks in and want me to wife them up. I am clear and up front with them from the get go. I dont change my end of the agreement but theirs seems to change after just a few meet ups.

Nothing turns me off faster than a thirsty woman who is a doormat and starts asking serious questions very early on.

What happened to the days of hanging out, being cool and keeping it fun? Hell I like a little chase in the cat and mouse game. I know I will get the mouse but I want to put a little effort into it or it is no fun.

Anyway, I keep frame and either let them come back into my frame or bounce them.

Is this something you guys are noticing out there in the field?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The pendulum is swinging back. That's all.

As more men embrace the red pill along with things like MGTOW and non-commitment sport f*cking... its getting harder for women to find loyal beta slaves to be their personal assistants like in the 80's and 90's.

As women get increasingly desperate.. they will be forced to actually give a sh!t about acting right and living up to male expectations. This is a good thing.

In the meantime, keep spinning plates and building your harem. Any guy limiting himself to ONE woman in 2017 is missing out.
 
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The pendulum is swinging back. That's all.

As more men embrace the red pill along with things like MGTOW and non-commitment sport f*cking... its getting harder for women to find loyal beta slaves to be their personal assistants like in the 80's and 90's.

As women get increasingly desperate.. they will be forced to actually give a sh!t about acting right and living up to male expectations. This is a good thing.

In the meantime, keep spinning plates and building your harem. Any guy limiting himself to ONE woman in 2017 is missing out.
Not only is the guy limiting himself to one woman missing out, he is the guy that pops up in the No Contact/Break Up thread.

Seriously, when one doesnt comply with what I am looking for, I find a replacement for her. I try to keep 2 minimum and 4 maximum. More than that requires too much focus to keep their info straight lol.

I guess for guys like me who are a good LTR catch, these chicks get thirsty when they start seeing potential in me right away. I move very, very slow emotionally so I push the physical aspect and let them worry about the emotional aspect. Thats when things get out of balance, they act goofy and find themselves watching the game from the bleachers instead of being on the field.
 

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In my opinion, you are dating women whom are not being honest with themselves about who they are and what they want from a man.

You are being honest with them that you aren't looking for commitment. They acknowledge and agree.

Either they dunt know themselves well enough to say "we are looking for different things, I need to say goodbye" or they simply are not deep thinkers (introspective) or (more likely) they think eventually they are going to change your mind.

I believe @Urbanyst and I have discussed this before. Some women will enter into a relationship Believing that they can change you. It is a huge character flaw in them.

There's nothing you did, or can do about it, v except restate that they knew your terms up front, and give them a way to gracefully exit (if you desire)

Are they thirsty? Maybe the truth is that you end up being what they consider a good catch!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In my opinion, you are dating women whom are not being honest with themselves about who they are and what they want from a man.

You are being honest with them that you aren't looking for commitment. They acknowledge and agree.

Either they dunt know themselves well enough to say "we are looking for different things, I need to say goodbye" or they simply are not deep thinkers (introspective) or (more likely) they think eventually they are going to change your mind.

I believe @Urbanyst and I have discussed this before. Some women will enter into a relationship Believing that they can change you. It is a huge character flaw in them.

There's nothing you did, or can do about it, v except restate that they knew your terms up front, and give them a way to gracefully exit (if you desire)

Are they thirsty? Maybe the truth is that you end up being what they consider a good catch!
Most people in general will push their frame on others. But there is an additional layer of entitlement with women once they enter romantic relationships where they seem to believe giving their body to you entitles them to controlling how you live and what your priorities should be.
 
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