"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Really, Sosuave? 10 posts in 1440 minutes?

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How many times has it happened to you? You type in a thoughtful, detailed, proof-read reply to a post but when you press the "Post Quick Reply" button it says "The Maximum number of posts is 10 in a 1440 minute period."

Then you press the back button, hoping to copy what you wrote for later. But no. Your post has been destroyed forever. It's truly an incredible disservice to the forum members who volunteer their time here.

Thank you, SoSuave Security team.

And if we didn't need more proof that it was the Buttmunch of the Year who chose:

1) Not to simply grey out the edit box when we're over the "limit".
2) Not to preserve what was typed when you press Back.
3) Not to post some warning in advance when you reach 10.
4) And who chose 10 as the limit to begin with.

They cinched the award by:

5) Coining a new term to mean 24 hours: 1440 minutes.

That would be a good sign for a 7-Eleven. "Now Open 1440 Minutes per day". Whatever you do, SS, don't fix that. Ever. And don't fire the jack-munch who chose 10 posts as the limit.

What goddamn $10 per hour outsourcing agency from India did SS hire to program this website?

Oh, and remember members: don't send more than 2 emails in 180 seconds. Wait another 170 seconds before trying again.

Bigneil
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blackwolf

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Yeah it kinda sucks. That's why I'm using my second account here lol.
 

TheMale

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i think, the admins need to change something in the parameter that you cant even open the reply thing.

that way it prevent you from wrriting something and you can comme tomorrow

i also think its not 24h but rather per day
i think you can comme after midnight and you're good to go.

someone tried this ?
 

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Perhaps the admins feel we should be spending 1440 minutes more productively actually meeting women rather than posting about them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the website looks and runs like ****, this is common knowledge. Back button has always worked for me, I'm not sure that's something actually coded into the boards.
 

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Slickster said:
I think the warning should read: GET A LIFE YOU ARE POSTING TOO MUCH!
Gee, let's take if from the Sosuave Lifetime Achievement member himself, Mr. 2000+ posts (who has been here years longer than I have and who averages 10% more posts per day).

Then again, as a software tools developer, rule #1 is that the user NEVER loses their work. It's unacceptable.
 

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Er mate, are you feeling ok?

Best thing to do is only post replies by clicking on "post reply" rather than the quick reply option...that way it tells you that you've already reached the 10 post limit before you even type anything.

Have to admit it's happened a few times to me myself.

So Suave, don't change a thing...posts should be about quality not quantity.
 

Groovy

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Isn't there a sticky somewhere that warns ppl about this rule?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eh the ten post a day rule sucks overall.

Imagine a guy hasn't posted for months and makes a thread asking for advice. Then views a few threads and gives his advice/comments. Eventually he's reached 10 posts and then has a great response that took him say 15 minutes to write in his post and he loses it. All that is gonna do is make him say "Eh I'm out of here" and not post for a bit because of anger or because he loses interest in not being able to post more than 10 times a day. Seriously I've never seen an other site that limits its user's posts to 10 posts in a 1440 minute time period.

Should be a tiered system; 10 posts per day until 100 posts and then it becomes 15 posts a day, 20 at 500 posts and 25 for 1000+. Having the 10 posts a day rule is good for the flame wars/bs but sucks when someone is in the middle of posting his/her pearls of wisdom during a conversation in a thread. Plus after 100 posts or so most Mods would get a feel for a user to understand if they are nothing but a fight starter or at least if a flame war started they could look through their history and take a gander to get a feel.
 

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Soon ppl are gonna join just for the thrill of debating this 10 post rule!
 

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Cuts down on the spam. Sucks that we don't have a notification to tell you how many posts you're at and how many you have left, instead it's just SUPRISE! You can't post anymore now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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I recommend you all stop caring about stupid forum things and move on with your lives. You guys pretend like you have more than TEN useful replies to contribute a day.
 

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bigneil said:
How many times has it happened to you? You type in a thoughtful, detailed, proof-read reply to a post but when you press the "Post Quick Reply" button it says "The Maximum number of posts is 10 in a 1440 minute period."

Then you press the back button, hoping to copy what you wrote for later. But no. Your post has been destroyed forever. It's truly an incredible disservice to the forum members who volunteer their time here.

Bigneil
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When I type a thoughtful, detailed, and proof-read reply I usually hit Preview Post button before I hit Submit Reply button. In this sequence I am able to hit the back button and copy my text.

Always preview your thoughtful and detailed responses :nono:



P.S. 10 post rule is just to force us read more than we post. Ideally we need to read 100% of the time and don't post anything because everything is already written.
 
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