"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Really simply technique to get over fear!

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The next time you need to call a girl up, or approach a girl all you need to do is treat her as if she was your best friend. I mean you actual best friend that you hang out with all the time and talk about women too.

How do you call you buddy up and ask him to go out?
You just call say wassup and do it!
How do you tell you best friend you are coming to hang?
You call him and tell him you are coming to hang!

And if he gives you lame answer why not you give him a better answer of why yes!

Treat them the exact same way you would you best friend and fear is usally non existent!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wow, i like it! :D
 
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Good point! I generally treat most people as if I know them as friends and it does work well. It helps overcome fears, barriers and awkwardness, and they feel like they know you and warm to you quicker.

The first time I ever spoke to this particular girl (who I'm now dating) I actually told her I was going to be her new best friend. Within 10 minutes of meeting her I was introducing her round as my new best friend and telling my other friends they've been replaced. I admit, it was a bit of a performance, but I totally disregarded any barriers between us and by the end of the night it literally felt like we'd known each other for ages.
 
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There is nothing new under the sun!

Originally posted by Jariel
Good point! I generally treat most people as if I know them as friends and it does work well. It helps overcome fears, barriers and awkwardness, and they feel like they know you and warm to you quicker.

The first time I ever spoke to this particular girl (who I'm now dating) I actually told her I was going to be her new best friend. Within 10 minutes of meeting her I was introducing her round as my new best friend and telling my other friends they've been replaced. I admit, it was a bit of a performance, but I totally disregarded any barriers between us and by the end of the night it literally felt like we'd known each other for ages.
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Since this has worded once for you, it is not theory, and therefore can work again. Do not and I repeat do not look for any other technique this one works perfect and therefore do it over and over until you die!

Interesting thing about humans-we ofter repeat things that are not working and abandon the things that do!

"If it aint broke don't fix it"

excellent job
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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