Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
Conversation tip:
When an opportunity naturally presents itself, make a reference to something the woman said in a conversation in the distant past.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:
In September of 2004, a female i was interested in casually mentioned that there was a really close friend of hers who was coming to see her, who shared her love of reggae music, and that they once had a bonding moment where they were driving down the freeway with some Bob Marley playing on the stereo.
A few months aback, during a brief encounter, she said she was going to see a friend from out of town. purely by coincidence, I asked:
"Is that the same friend who you said you had that bonding moment with, when you were driving along the freeway listening to some Bob?"
She was stunned for a second, her expression changed then her eyes GLOWED and she smiled and said softly
"Yeah, it is!"
And she stared and smiled in wonder.
i only realized long afterwards that what I had in fact done was to giver her an extremely powerful compliment without looking like I was trying to compliment her, and compliments, when used properly, rarely, and timed right, are extremely powerful.
This technique can only be used when the opportunity presents itself, or else you will look like you deliberately memorized what she said and brought it up to score points. Do it naturally, and she will look at you in a totally different light.
When an opportunity naturally presents itself, make a reference to something the woman said in a conversation in the distant past.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:
In September of 2004, a female i was interested in casually mentioned that there was a really close friend of hers who was coming to see her, who shared her love of reggae music, and that they once had a bonding moment where they were driving down the freeway with some Bob Marley playing on the stereo.
A few months aback, during a brief encounter, she said she was going to see a friend from out of town. purely by coincidence, I asked:
"Is that the same friend who you said you had that bonding moment with, when you were driving along the freeway listening to some Bob?"
She was stunned for a second, her expression changed then her eyes GLOWED and she smiled and said softly
"Yeah, it is!"
And she stared and smiled in wonder.
i only realized long afterwards that what I had in fact done was to giver her an extremely powerful compliment without looking like I was trying to compliment her, and compliments, when used properly, rarely, and timed right, are extremely powerful.
This technique can only be used when the opportunity presents itself, or else you will look like you deliberately memorized what she said and brought it up to score points. Do it naturally, and she will look at you in a totally different light.