"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Really Need Help With My Parents

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I love my parents but they are really like strict for no reason. I need help cause my parent want me to get my licensce but they don't want me to get a car. They don't want me dating. They don't even let me stay out late with cousins on non school days. They usually don't let me go to parents. This is just killing me socially and been putting me into a depression as of late. Since I've been the end of many jokes as of late for being on lockdown. So anyone have any advice on what to say to my parents. I'm going be 17 in 2 months and if I don't get better treatment I'm def moving out the house as soon as I turn 18 and never lookin back
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have you talked to em about it? Have you tried to compromise?
 

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Yeah they pretty much brush me off basically saying that I don't need things and all this other bull****
 

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tell them about karma...and that you'll be deciding what nursing home there guna be stuck in one day

you say they just brush you off when you mention the subject? have you tried sneaking out at all? see what happens then, they'll be worried sick about you then you can tell them if they let you out they'll know where you are all the time ect. or they could ground you for life :mad:
 

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have you tried sneaking out at all
Hell No.
You think theyre strict now... watch them when you get caught. :( You all think youre parents never catch you... they do. They know every little sh--y thing you do. They just dont say it.

Tell me, do youre parents have any reason at all to be so strict?

Bad grades, caught with alcohol, sneaking out, bad behavior, anything?
If they do, its your fault.

Otherwise, find out why. Like this

"Mother/Father/Aunt Harriet, Why cant I go anywhere?"
I've been the end of many jokes as of late for being on lockdown
When Im grounded, people say "Sh-t, that sucks."
Theyre joking about your situation, not you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i always ask them if they have reasons, like why i can't go to a skatepark. they'll say "cuz there might be drugs or alchohol" and i tell them that there banned there, and you get kicked out for like a year if they find out u've been using them on their grounds. just say reasons that disprove them.


(if that doesn't work, when my parents don't let me go places i just give them both a nazi salute and goose step out of the room. :p )
 
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