Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Really hurting on getting rejected on Day 2's.... this site is not congruent

judoguy

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Here is the deal 4 years on and off girlfriend I am sure you heard it all.... basically a pattern of getting sick of her... being single for a few months... realizing its not all its cracked up to be... wash/ rinse/ repeat

All the girls I talk to seem like they suck... they just honestly are dumb and live pointless lives.... I have been comparing these girls to my ex and I am just like getting those feelings back of "why did I dump her?" These girls are worthless etc. etc.

I am not looking to have countless lays... to be honest I dont really lay a girl till I have been dating her for a few months. I know everyone here is about the lay as quick as possible but personally I do not find it satisfying

I am looking for a cool girl to spend my time with but these bar and club girls are awful , I tried POF but worthless...


Sorry for the rant but I have so much homework to do and I cant concentrate on this **** because I just keep thinking if I made a mistake dumping my ex gf
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chromeo

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do your homework you pansy bag. but it sounds like you have no sexual feelings towards women.

do you not have any friends? Im sorry but I have friends that are girls that I have no interest in banging but are cool to hang out with.

Stop looking for a girl to freakin mary, if you find one thats worth it then by all means but your puttin that pvssy(well not pvssy in your case) on a pedestal

If your sick of her then leave her your ex, there are over a billion women on this planet, do you know how many that is? there is one that you will like way more probably even in your city.
 

wasted-nick

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JG - you sound pretty bummed. You know, there are an awful lot of women out there, but the good ones are a rare find.

It sounds as though you've always kept the ex in your back pocket... a fall-back option. Make a choice man... it ain't easy, but do it. You already know what you're gonna get with the ex, and it sounds like a truck-load of settling.

I can respect you wanting to have more than an easy lay - that's cool. Keep working on yourself and maybe quit looking for 'the one' for a while. 5hit changes quick in life...
 

joe henny

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Chromeo said:
do your homework you pansy bag. but it sounds like you have no sexual feelings towards women.

do you not have any friends? Im sorry but I have friends that are girls that I have no interest in banging but are cool to hang out with.

Stop looking for a girl to freakin mary, if you find one thats worth it then by all means but your puttin that pvssy(well not pvssy in your case) on a pedestal

If your sick of her then leave her your ex, there are over a billion women on this planet, do you know how many that is? there is one that you will like way more probably even in your city.

And I thought this was a sight full of symps. I see there are some of you with good game here
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joe henny

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naw im jus saying u hav good game advice
 

Iceberg

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judoguy said:
I am not looking to have countless lays... to be honest I dont really lay a girl till I have been dating her for a few months. I know everyone here is about the lay as quick as possible but personally I do not find it satisfying

I am looking for a cool girl to spend my time with but these bar and club girls are awful , I tried POF but worthless...
So you're looking for a cool girl to spend your time with who is willing to wait a few months for you to be comfortable enough to have sex with her? Where do the nuns hang out in your neighborhood?

I feel bad for a girl...or anyone really...who has to wait months just to find out if they're sexually compatible with a person.

Sorry for the rant but I have so much homework to do and I cant concentrate on this **** because I just keep thinking if I made a mistake dumping my ex gf
You didn't make a mistake dumping your GF. You dumped her because you were bored. You wanted different things in life. And now you realize that getting new women requires WORK.

So this is the point in life where you decide, do you want to work for something that might lead to a great and interesting journey... Or do you want to go back to the comfortable ol' ex GF, and continue living out the rest of your days in peaceful boredom?

Working towards greatness means that sometimes you'll be lonely. Sometimes you'll hurt. But in the end, you might accomplish something.

And staying with your GF means that you won't be lonely, you'll just be wondering about the exciting life you could have lived if you had sacrificed comfort for ambition.
 

Pimply_Pimp

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judoguy said:
Here is the deal 4 years on and off girlfriend I am sure you heard it all.... basically a pattern of getting sick of her... being single for a few months... realizing its not all its cracked up to be... wash/ rinse/ repeat

All the girls I talk to seem like they suck... they just honestly are dumb and live pointless lives.... I have been comparing these girls to my ex and I am just like getting those feelings back of "why did I dump her?" These girls are worthless etc. etc.

I am not looking to have countless lays... to be honest I dont really lay a girl till I have been dating her for a few months. I know everyone here is about the lay as quick as possible but personally I do not find it satisfying

I am looking for a cool girl to spend my time with but these bar and club girls are awful , I tried POF but worthless...


Sorry for the rant but I have so much homework to do and I cant concentrate on this **** because I just keep thinking if I made a mistake dumping my ex gf
Hate to break it to you, but your ex has probably ****ed AT LEAST 3 different guys by now while you do homework thinking about her.

Just sayin' dude. Can't stop reality from punching you in the face. :up:
 
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