"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's obvious the OP was looking for validation for being interested in the girl.

So we've come to the consensus that she's overweight, and she's insecure about it (which completely contradicts her profile). She's not fat but it's obvious in the 3rd photo where her belly is pouring over her belt a little (dead giveaway), and those thighs are a little too chunky to be considered curvy.

I'll take her over a skinny girl that's barely over 100 lbs anyday of the week, girls like this are meant to be used as training f*ck dummies in bed. Funny thing is I bet if most of these guys who consider her an HB8 saw her with a black guy they'd be quick to dub her as a fat slut.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker said:
see i work out about 6 days a week and have since i was 21 almost 22 years old. I am in GREAT shape and I look GREAT with my shirt off.

I do not fvck women that have bigger waists than I have. I just don't. If you can't put on my blue jeans than you might as well just not bother checking for my calls. It's not what I am attracted to and because I work out, that's what I demand in return. w ant woman who are in shape. I like petite, leggy women. I'm not an ass or tit man I'm a leg (feet lol) guy. I like a woman that looks great in a ****tail dress with pumps on. that's what gets my **** hard.

you can be proud of being thick all you want but I'm not talking to you.

But you know what the rub is with people liek this, and it actually burns me up talking about it, because I get talked to by woman like that all the time. especially when I was single. One of them was so funny i actually went out on a date with for ****s and giggles. But these women will tell you all the time, how they are proud of being bigger and how they are "real women" and having a little meat on their bones should be a good thing..

then why are you talking to me and not the guy who has been trying to get you to return his calls that's 5'10 and 205 and wears a size 38?

see these *****es want their cake and eat it too and most men eat that **** up. F that.


at least skinny women are honest with themselves. they keep themselves hot and skinny because that's what they want. fat women want the same thing but instead of working for it, they try to trick or manipulate you into giving them an equal chance.
Exactly!!! This is so you see how unfair the game is (not much we can do about it tho...)

If I was out of shape like that girl...I wouldn't even STAND a chance against her. For some reason our society is very easy and accepts/excuses this kind of life disorder, specially for WOMEN.

I really dont understand how generic chicks like this are considered high in demand while I'm on a better shape and take care of myself better.
 

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backbreaker said:
the girl in that youtube video is not unattractiv e but doesn't have enough leg for me. just my preference. doesn't really do it for me


this is what you call "curves in the right places"

http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/29pswg3.jpg

that is about as big as i will go right there.
Yeah, this one is more accurate. None of them had tans, though. Not pale, but not tan. Ha ha. But that is definitely one I would've gone for back in the day. Good choice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah fat sloppy chicks with rolls of fat hanging off her are the worse. How can anyone screw those hogs?
Alcohol, or at least that is my excuse.
 

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a hairdresser that likes to live at the club. NEXT! I also bet she is the sluttiest out of her group. she has to be because she's at a disadvantage in the group by being "the chubby cute girl". in other words this is going to be one man hating fat broad in about 10 years. the saying "rode hard and put up wet" comes to mind. i would deffinately do her......if i didn't have to get to know the REAL her first.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She is all woman! Most men could not handle that. ;)

btw ilikecharlene what do you mean her butt sticks out? That's the way it is supposed to be! It's men that have flat asses. A woman with a good body should have a butt that sticks out never flat. It is such a big turnoff to see women with flat asses. I guess some men like women that have the body of little boys but i personally prefer women with some meat on them.
 

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rhcp83 said:
male 10s (in women's eyes) are rare...guys with perfectly sculpted bodies/alpha face, firefighters, cowboys, tall pretty boys, pretty boys like tom brady/derek jeter. in other words guys that wouldn't be on an advice site on how to improve with women. i call bs.
^this
 

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Nah... Just because you're good-looking - doesn't mean you don't run into problems in the dating game. Everyone does. It's not all about the looks, anyway. You'll see that a lot of problems come AFTER the guy gets his foot in the door, and is deemed attractive enough to date. It also doesn't mean you won't help those who are not experienced. Why the hate?

I would post a pic, but don't know where to upload it. Any free sites? Not sure if guys are the best judge, anyway.
 

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I don't think it's possible for chubby girls to be attractive. Weird thing is, she looks nice... But if you imagine actually kissing her or taking her clothes off then no... If she was in shape she'd be a very attractive girl.
 

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f283000 said:
She is all woman! Most men could not handle that. ;)

btw ilikecharlene what do you mean her butt sticks out? That's the way it is supposed to be! It's men that have flat asses. A woman with a good body should have a butt that sticks out never flat. It is such a big turnoff to see women with flat asses. I guess some men like women that have the body of little boys but i personally prefer women with some meat on them.
because she is African, her butt sticks out. Most white women, or even Asians, don't have that.

And pardon me for expressing an opinion. Don't let the fact that others think differently from you phase you. :rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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because she is African, her butt sticks out. Most white women, or even Asians, don't have that.
they might not have it but most women want a big butt now a days :D

and I understand we are all different. You are entitled to your opinion and i am entitled to mine which is that I just can't understand how a man can like a woman that has the body of a skinny boy. I just never could understand that...
 

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I like curves, but proportionate body features. her butt looks odd as it sticks out. I'm not much into black women anyhow, so maybe that's prejudicing my view a bit.
 

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As Deano would say, "She's a piggy-piggy."

The problem with "cute chubby" girls is that they tend to become comfortable "fat girls" once they think they're done with the game.

It's a TRAP!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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