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Don Juan
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This is my first post!
Some time ago, I started out reading some tips, subscribing to David DeA, started reading up on how to become attractive. Tips like ****y+funny, disinterest, and all that started to come together in my brain, and suddenly I knew what to do already.
But the funny thing is, once I started to apply these things, I found that I had already applied them several years ago. A time when my confidence was at an all time high. There was a reporter's training workshop that I went to just for the heck of it, at the behest of my parents. At the time, I was in an international school for the International Baccalaureate program, and as I was walking down the corridor to the room, a little voice said in my head: "You're probably the only one who's from an international school in this entire room."
Luckily for my confidence, this turned out to be perfectly true. One thing I remember extremely well was daring other males I was sitting with to get the names of all the girls in the room. Since nobody would come along with me, I think that just fanned my confidence, and I went around and asked each and every girl for her name, and they would giggle. I was generally cracking more jokes than I used to in my school, talking more. Eventually, it seemed like the guys in the room were looking up to me - I don't remember what one of them said, though, but it certainly sounded to me like most girls liked me.
Another thing I remember very well was this girl who asked me to sit next to her in the back of the bus. It was a seat right next to the window, which meant that she would be the only one sitting right next to me and that she would also be flanked by all those guys on her left. I remember thinking that she wasn't too bad, in fact she seemed to be the most popular girl in the group. So I sat next to her, and we didn't really chat about anything significant (we were teenagers after all). And I thought nothing of it after that, just perhaps... that I was a little boxed in and couldn't run up and down the bus making new friends at my own will. We were so loud and raucous that the supervisor came to the back of the bus and yelled at us.
And I thought nothing of it. But after the workshop (it was only two days), I began to be asked out by that girl who had asked me to sit at the window, three times, with intervals spanning weeks in between. Later it was revealed that she did like me after all (heard it straight from her mouth).
Well, stuff happened, and I was into another girl at the time, so all these years we've just remained friends. I can't deny I probably made a strong impression on her though.
The point is: I somehow knew how to attract the most attractive woman of the group, years before I read this advice on the forum and sosuave.com. I managed to produce a strong enough impression on her that she would ask me out three times, over a span of several weeks, without me ever maintaining contact with her otherwise.
Clearly, something must be terribly wrong with me in order to be reading this stuff when I could already do all that... well okay, so there are some techniques here that I should apply a bit more than I otherwise would, like kino. It must be confidence.
All you need, I think, is confidence. Be sure of yourself. Sure, confidence can come and go like the tide... but instead of worrying over how that affects your game, worry over how you can get your confidence back. All they were doing is simply describing parts of confidence. C+F, I like to say nowadays, is like a cardboard cutout of confidence. Well, at least I've come this far.
If I have one problem with my behaviour that day, it's that my confidence was bought using my parents' money, and I haven't had a similar rush like that at my international school at all. I don't really know how to solve that, but it probably involves working out and getting a dream, and I've almost got the second part. Is there anything I'm missing?
I'm glad this forum exists.
Some time ago, I started out reading some tips, subscribing to David DeA, started reading up on how to become attractive. Tips like ****y+funny, disinterest, and all that started to come together in my brain, and suddenly I knew what to do already.
But the funny thing is, once I started to apply these things, I found that I had already applied them several years ago. A time when my confidence was at an all time high. There was a reporter's training workshop that I went to just for the heck of it, at the behest of my parents. At the time, I was in an international school for the International Baccalaureate program, and as I was walking down the corridor to the room, a little voice said in my head: "You're probably the only one who's from an international school in this entire room."
Luckily for my confidence, this turned out to be perfectly true. One thing I remember extremely well was daring other males I was sitting with to get the names of all the girls in the room. Since nobody would come along with me, I think that just fanned my confidence, and I went around and asked each and every girl for her name, and they would giggle. I was generally cracking more jokes than I used to in my school, talking more. Eventually, it seemed like the guys in the room were looking up to me - I don't remember what one of them said, though, but it certainly sounded to me like most girls liked me.
Another thing I remember very well was this girl who asked me to sit next to her in the back of the bus. It was a seat right next to the window, which meant that she would be the only one sitting right next to me and that she would also be flanked by all those guys on her left. I remember thinking that she wasn't too bad, in fact she seemed to be the most popular girl in the group. So I sat next to her, and we didn't really chat about anything significant (we were teenagers after all). And I thought nothing of it after that, just perhaps... that I was a little boxed in and couldn't run up and down the bus making new friends at my own will. We were so loud and raucous that the supervisor came to the back of the bus and yelled at us.
And I thought nothing of it. But after the workshop (it was only two days), I began to be asked out by that girl who had asked me to sit at the window, three times, with intervals spanning weeks in between. Later it was revealed that she did like me after all (heard it straight from her mouth).
Well, stuff happened, and I was into another girl at the time, so all these years we've just remained friends. I can't deny I probably made a strong impression on her though.
The point is: I somehow knew how to attract the most attractive woman of the group, years before I read this advice on the forum and sosuave.com. I managed to produce a strong enough impression on her that she would ask me out three times, over a span of several weeks, without me ever maintaining contact with her otherwise.
Clearly, something must be terribly wrong with me in order to be reading this stuff when I could already do all that... well okay, so there are some techniques here that I should apply a bit more than I otherwise would, like kino. It must be confidence.
All you need, I think, is confidence. Be sure of yourself. Sure, confidence can come and go like the tide... but instead of worrying over how that affects your game, worry over how you can get your confidence back. All they were doing is simply describing parts of confidence. C+F, I like to say nowadays, is like a cardboard cutout of confidence. Well, at least I've come this far.
If I have one problem with my behaviour that day, it's that my confidence was bought using my parents' money, and I haven't had a similar rush like that at my international school at all. I don't really know how to solve that, but it probably involves working out and getting a dream, and I've almost got the second part. Is there anything I'm missing?
I'm glad this forum exists.
