"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tristan22

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A lot of the posters on so suave are looking for a magic antidote to help them achieve social greatness and alpha male prosperity. However, it is apparent that most of you over complicate and over analyze each and every aspect of your life; therefore setting yourself up for disappointment and disaster.

A lot of you take everything so seriously, you sit and wait for people’s acceptance, you ponder people’s actions, and you immediately blame yourself when things do not go as planned. You base your success on what others think......THIS IS WRONG AND THIS IS WHY YOU"RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE WITH WOMEN!
People are very intuitive and when you’re giving off bad vibes (lack of confidence, insecurity, psycho crazy, etc.) the people you come in contact with pick up on it.

Most individuals, who have gained success, have learned to control their ego and not let their insecurities interfere with their objective or goal. These individuals refuse to sit around worrying about what others think; they could care less because they have their ego in check and their priorities straight. These individuals have something that others don't; it's called CONFIDENCE!

Although there’s no magic antidote when it comes to picking up women, there is a solution to make your journey much easier. The moment you get your ego in check and the moment you stop basing your life on others actions and reactions, is the moment you've found confidence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Afrodisiac21
Good post, Im surprised it got no reply's
For some the truth hurts...
 

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to add somethign here.

ONCE YOU GET YOUR CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF. Picking up women will become easier and more natural without any tricks...yes teh Dj tricks help.

but they are TRICKS...you can do anything you want with CONFIDENCE.

get it threw your head..CONFIDENCE


CONFIDENCE
 
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