"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Knowledge, Education, and Confidence are much more important than anything else that you develop in highschool. Forget about the worthless relationships here and focus on higher things in life. You'll be a lot better off. Relationships in HS are some what pointless to a person who knows how they work. If you are intelligent enough to see the truth don't bother wasting your time getting the puzzy that you really don't need. Just wait for Christ's sake!

The first years of your life are for your education. Focus on this and you'll be better off in the end. Women in college and out of college are much more secure than any girl you'd encounter in highschool. That is a fact. If you aren't a moron than you know what i'm talking about.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most people aren't mature enough to look at the bigger picture. Most would rather suppress their insecure feelings by getting wasted every weekend and jerking off their arrogance by "hooking up" with as many girls as possible. You forget that most people are losers, who could care less about the future or their intelligence. This is evident in high school and even on these boards.

Any person who truly cares about himself more than his high school reputation could honestly give a **** about girls and being popular. Ironically enough these people are the ones who tend to get the most attention, however little they want it.

When you get your priorities fixed, the entire world opens up to you, including the very world that you no longer desire to be a part of; the "real" world by your own definition.
 
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hindsight is 20/20.

What do you expect ? Teen grown ups? The point of highschool is having fun.. everyone is insecure, wierd and just plain clueless on life in general.

Why forfeit all your teenage years because those are the only times in your life where being a complete dumbass is acceptable. Its where you learn from your stupid actions.
 
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Originally posted by Julian
hindsight is 20/20.

What do you expect ? Teen grown ups? The point of highschool is having fun.. everyone is insecure, wierd and just plain clueless on life in general.

Why forfeit all your teenage years because those are the only times in your life where being a complete dumbass is acceptable. Its where you learn from your stupid actions.
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Your insight is agreeable to some degree. Yes teenagers are known for crazy things, but they must also have some sort of intelligence that limits their "stupidty". Many will find out that doing certain stupid things and getting caught leads to future misfortunes.

its funny to see all these kids go to a 4 year college and drop out half way through their freshman year even though they were straight A students in highschool. Heh:D
 
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Originally posted by Vercetti
Knowledge, Education, and Confidence are much more important than anything else that you develop in highschool. Forget about the worthless relationships here and focus on higher things in life. You'll be a lot better off. Relationships in HS are some what pointless to a person who knows how they work. If you are intelligent enough to see the truth don't bother wasting your time getting the puzzy that you really don't need. Just wait for Christ's sake!

The first years of your life are for your education. Focus on this and you'll be better off in the end. Women in college and out of college are much more secure than any girl you'd encounter in highschool. That is a fact. If you aren't a moron than you know what i'm talking about.

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I disagree. There's lots of time to work after highschool - the rest of your life, in fact. Live it up while you're in school. From talking to people older than me, you'll never have more spare time than you do now to screw around and do what you want, with minimal consequences if you screw up. Don't miss this chance by trying to become prematurely mature. Highschool relationships might be meaningless, but they're still fun in the meantime. Why not?

Education is overrated. When you're 30, will you care what your GPA or SAT scores were? No way (hell, most people can't even remember them). Obviously, you still need to look somewhat toward the future. Just don't let it dominate your life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is nothing wrong with having fun in highschool. If you want to get girls or act like a dumbass, then do it as long as it doesn't hurt you in the future. Ask any person above the age of 40 and 90% of them will tell you they wish they were teens again. I say enjoy the time while you still have it to enjoy, after all you have the rest of your life to work and only a few more years to be crazy.
 
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Its a good idea to learn what love and relationships are and to conquer them before college. It does take up a lot of precious time when you can't figure things out and spend all your effort in doing so.
 
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Originally posted by Vercetti
Knowledge, Education, and Confidence are much more important than anything else that you develop in highschool. Forget about the worthless relationships here and focus on higher things in life. You'll be a lot better off. Relationships in HS are some what pointless to a person who knows how they work. If you are intelligent enough to see the truth don't bother wasting your time getting the puzzy that you really don't need. Just wait for Christ's sake!

The first years of your life are for your education. Focus on this and you'll be better off in the end. Women in college and out of college are much more secure than any girl you'd encounter in highschool. That is a fact. If you aren't a moron than you know what i'm talking about.

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