"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A-Unit said:
THINKING all women are bad, that marriage is bad or doomed, women are slutz, etc, etc, etc, infinatum, only GUARANTEES your reality to be as such. My reality is NOT your's,
OK kid, get something "straight", as in "correct" - our/your thinking has absolutely nothing to do with reality!!!!!!! Thought is inconsequential to the reality of what is!!!!! No matter what you think - what "IS" "IS" regardless of your wishes for what you want it to be!!! Your wishes are futuristic, but what "IS" "IS" at this exact time and at no other time!!!

"Reality is NOT personal!!! Reality is the same for everyone!!!!! There are no special individual circumstances for reality to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your experiences are your own experiences BUT YOUR experiencies do NOT make reality!!!! Understood!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't think this topic is even debatable... no one knows how reality works its just reality. and basically stuff only exists because we have names to call things. if language didn't exist and thought didn't exist would there even be a reality? i don't think so. therefore our thoughts create our reality. oh look i just took a side on the issue. i still don't believe that what i'm saying is true though. because i have no fvcking idea. and that there is reality... or not.
 
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