"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A-Unit said:
THINKING all women are bad, that marriage is bad or doomed, women are slutz, etc, etc, etc, infinatum, only GUARANTEES your reality to be as such. My reality is NOT your's,
OK kid, get something "straight", as in "correct" - our/your thinking has absolutely nothing to do with reality!!!!!!! Thought is inconsequential to the reality of what is!!!!! No matter what you think - what "IS" "IS" regardless of your wishes for what you want it to be!!! Your wishes are futuristic, but what "IS" "IS" at this exact time and at no other time!!!

"Reality is NOT personal!!! Reality is the same for everyone!!!!! There are no special individual circumstances for reality to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your experiences are your own experiences BUT YOUR experiencies do NOT make reality!!!! Understood!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i don't think this topic is even debatable... no one knows how reality works its just reality. and basically stuff only exists because we have names to call things. if language didn't exist and thought didn't exist would there even be a reality? i don't think so. therefore our thoughts create our reality. oh look i just took a side on the issue. i still don't believe that what i'm saying is true though. because i have no fvcking idea. and that there is reality... or not.
 
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