Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Realistically, how hard do men at the bottom of the racial totem pole have to work?

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I understand I have posted a lot of race threads but this is the end.

Say you have two guys, James and Varuun.

James is a 6 ft tall ripped White American male with Blonde hair and blue eyes. Varuun is a 6 ft tall ripped Indian American (Americanized Indian) with Black hair and brown eyes. James has pale skin and Varuun has light brown skin.

Hypothetically, assuming both men are Americanized and all that, how much harder will Varuun (an Indian) have to work than James (a blonde hair blue eyed guy, type of men who are on top of the beauty ladder). Assuming both men are attractive and the kind of women in their area are mainly White and Hispanic.

Setting is here IN THE USA.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In india, Varuun will have no issues...neither will James for that matter since woman all over the world drool over good looking american men

In America, he'll have his issues. But finding a good looking Indian gal shouldn't be that big a problem. If he insists on a white girl...gonna take him a while. But not impossible
 

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rum said:
In india, Varuun will have no issues...neither will James for that matter since woman all over the world drool over good looking american men

In America, he'll have his issues. But finding a good looking Indian gal shouldn't be that big a problem. If he insists on a white girl...gonna take him a while. But not impossible
setting is IN AMERICA

and no, woman all over the world do not droll over good looking american men, they droll over good looking men

what is so tough about attracting white girls for varun? pleas, tell us
 

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temporaryBrah said:
setting is IN AMERICA

and no, woman all over the world do not droll over good looking american men, they droll over good looking men

what is so tough about attracting white girls for varun? pleas, tell us
White girls go for white guys more than 95% of the time. A minority in this country race mix (sometimes to experiment, sometimes to piss of their dads...sometimes genuinely out of love) people will experiment with the exotic in appearance (like varuun) but will ultimately settle for the familiar.

Varuun has it easier than he would have...40 years ago. But ultimately the racial makeup of this country does him no favors.
 

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rum said:
White girls go for white guys more than 95% of the time. A minority in this country race mix (sometimes to experiment, sometimes to piss of their dads...sometimes genuinely out of love) people will experiment with the exotic in appearance (like varuun) but will ultimately settle for the familiar.

Varuun has it easier than he would have...40 years ago. But ultimately the racial makeup of this country does him no favors.
it isn't about settling down, it is about one night stands and hookin up for the short term
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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temporaryBrah said:
it isn't about settling down, it is about one night stands and hookin up for the short term
1 night stands? what is this an episode of FRIENDS. 1 night stands are scummy, empty, worthless

I'd have to say 1 out of every 10 white girls will get in bed with him. And they'll try like hell to make sure there families and GF's don't find out.
 

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1 night stands? what is this an episode of FRIENDS. 1 night stands are scummy, empty, worthless

I'd have to say 1 out of every 10 white girls will get in bed with him. And they'll try like hell to make sure there families and GF's don't find out.
you make White women sound like crazy demons
 

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There's no specific answer to 'how much' as there are too many factors in play. The answer is 'harder', but it doesn't apply to the real world. Some men are born taller, better looking, with more money, etc, but that shouldn't stop you from being the best you can. Remember that necessity is what prompts action, not contempt. Some of the most successful people are NOT tall/good looking/come from affluent background. Quite the opposite.

Case in point: 5'5" lil wayne, biggie, etc.

You have to find what YOU want and WHY. When you can answer both of these questions with clarity, the HOW will reveal itself.
 

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Dress up like this guy and you'll get laid :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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temporaryBrah said:
how much harder?
3 point hb difference

if the white dude pulls hb8 chicks on the regular

the indian guy will pull 5s....desperate nurses, fuglies, ex gangbang queens...low level white biyaches...Indians are considered mommy whipped and clingy by most white women so their game status is low.

all the americanized indians in my lab complain about this

sadly thats just the way our society is structured.

even sea-creatures get more white puzzy :):):) http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/stingray-photobomb-women-cayman-135743169.html
 

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Burroughs said:
3 point hb difference

if the white dude pulls hb8 chicks on the regular

the indian guy will pull 5s....desperate nurses, fuglies, ex gangbang queens...low level white biyaches...Indians are considered mommy whipped and clingy by most white women so their game status is low.

all the americanized indians in my lab complain about this

sadly thats just the way our society is structured.
well what if this Indian guy and the White guy both have game?
 

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the indian guy will do great if he is rich or comes from a rich family.
 

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you guys what part of AMERICA is this? here in Jersey City it dont matter lol you guys seem a little racist btw..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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people from undesired ethnicities should also turn themselves into over the top characters similar to kal pen from harold and kumar or comedian aziz ansari, you gotta really put it out there that you arent the average stereotypical guy from that race, its hard but i think thats the best bet.

but even whats desirable is different for every person. ive met a few attractive white girls who were totally into indian and persian men. ive known girls who would only date black men. i mean, people find a lot of different things attractive nowadays.
 

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it is hard to believe that there are women who admit being attracted to indian and persian men, thing is, there aren't that many of them here in the US to start out with anyways

so why would all of this animosity come from women against Indian men?
 

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It's about location. You're gonna fare much better in major cities than in the suburbs.

New York, Los Angeles, Miami, Chicago, are gonna be better places than states like Wyoming, South Dakota, Idaho, etc.
 

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are all kinds of women open minded there?

like is a white girl from california more open minded than one from georgia?
 

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It all comes down to language and personality. Anyone can go buy themselves expensive clothing, gadgets, etc. Assuming looks are average, whats differentiating you from the competition is how you talk to the girl and how you get her attention. My rule of thumb, if you can make a girl truly laugh uncontrollably and if you can make her blush at will, you got her. Unless the girl is a complete racist, any degree of prejudice can be overcome with entertaining conversation skills. I never got a hang of the a$$hat routine, so I don't know how that would factor in.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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