"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"RealAge" test

BMX

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For one of my psychology classes recently, I had to go to www.realage.com and take their free realage test. It surveys you on your lifestyle, habits, family, stress, etc. I'm 20 right now, but it says my "realage" in terms of physical health is 14 (pretty good). I thought the questions about your driving habits was unnecessary. So what's everyone's RealAge here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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That's a really good site. I come in at 29! :cheer:
 

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DANG! I made my brother take it he just turned 24 and his "realage" is 16.
 

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I did this a few months ago, I was 25. I actually prefer that.
 

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dammit...im 22 but it said my real age was 30 =(.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hmm I'm 26 but my real age is 17.7...

Does this mean I can have sex with underage girls and get away with it :confused:

Good
Good sleep levels
Positive attitude
Ideal BMI
Good oral hygiene
Limited or no secondhand smoke exposure
Nonsmoker
Medication use
Daily breakfast
Diverse diet
Flexibility routine
No drinking and driving
Safety belt or airbag usage
Vehicle size
Strength training level
Cardiovascular level
Cell phone use

Bad
Flossing habits
Lycopene levels
Low vegetable intake
Low fruit servings
Low unsaturated fat
High resting heart rate
Potassium levels
Low grain intake
Low omega-3 intake
Folic acid intake
Daily vitamin
Driving speeds
High red meat intake
Blood pressure control
Calcium intake
Vitamin E intake
Vitamin C intake
Have cholesterol level measured
Social network and stress
 

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i was told i look like i'm in my 30s....and i know i feel like i'm in my late 30s....
 

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Master Bates said:
Actually uses BMI.

Worthless.
worthless..... to the 0.1% of the population that has a high BMI because they're stacked with ripped muscles from having pumped iron during their typical 4 hour/day regimen.

For the other 99.9% of us, if you're into health; make sure it's 25 or less.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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azanon said:
worthless..... to the 0.1% of the population that has a high BMI because they're stacked with ripped muscles from having pumped iron during their typical 4 hour/day regimen.

For the other 99.9% of us, if you're into health; make sure it's 25 or less.
Absolute bullsh*t. I have a decent amount of muscle but certainly nothing people on this forum would go nuts about, and fairly low bodyfat, and my BMI is 26.6.

Also, according to the bmi calculator I must be 164lbs or under to not be considered "overweight". Give. Me. A. Break.

It's worthless.
 
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im 33 and it says that my 'real age' is 2, wtf, it thinks im a baby.
 

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joekerr31 said:
im 33 and it says that my 'real age' is 2, wtf, it thinks im a baby.
Also means you must be the happiest man on Earth. haha!
I took this test on Facebook once. I got 13.
Wonder how young I'd be if i stopped smoking and drinking all together?
Don't want to find out I'm an embryo, think I'll stick with moderation. Lol
 

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I'm Doomed!

I said i was a 4th grade educated unemployed short super fat guy with horrible cholesterol. It said I was 55.

But the REALLY COOL web site is here:

http://www.deathclock.com

It shows your life slipping away, second by second....
 

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I need to read the privacy statement more carefully before going ahead ...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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taiyuu_otoko said:
I said i was a 4th grade educated unemployed short super fat guy with horrible cholesterol. It said I was 55.

But the REALLY COOL web site is here:

http://www.deathclock.com

It shows your life slipping away, second by second....
That one has me living till 2075. I really don't think I want to be around that long.

I guess I will be a really mature man then.
 
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