"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Real woman ?

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I intend to cross the country sleeping with women I knew in my MSN.
But now I have a doubt:

I have a theory that only a real woman can have perfect female voice
(Of course some women have a strange voice and still are women)

But the question is: Can I trust a perfect female voice to make sure she is a woman rather than transgender, gay or other thing ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mustache said:
I intend to cross the country sleeping with women I knew in my MSN.
But now I have a doubt:

I have a theory that only a real woman can have perfect female voice
(Of course some women have a strange voice and still are women)

But the question is: Can I trust a perfect female voice to make sure she is a woman rather than transgender, gay or other thing ?
When her penis makes an appearance during; that's when you'll know for sure.
 

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Not kidding

Thank you guys, but I am not kidding.

When I am in a party the first thing a look is at the individual chin.
Women have thinner chin than men. Than I look at the shoulders/head
proportion. Female heads are larger when comparing to shoulders

As there is always exceptions, I just would like to know if voice can be conclusive issue


Mustache
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm sure there must be some flawless trans-whatevers out there that will fool you voice-wise as well.

Some women do have more pronounced adam's apples, so you can't always go by that. And I was in an east village bar one night humorously watching some tourist dude thinking he had scoped big time with this very beautiful chick - but she was a drag queen. But you could still tell just from his/her mannerisms. Or maybe he was into drag queens, maybe that's why he came to NYC, I wouldn't know.

If in any doubt, any suspicion whatsoever, even in the least, then just don't go for it.
 

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mannerisms

Interesting... I never thought about observing mannerisms
But can anyone invest so much in changing appearence and voice,
and still keep mannerisms ?
 
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