"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Real time seduction

Jeffrey12

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Hi guys,

I thought I'd have a real time thread that represents my interactions with women. Some successful some not so successful. The reason why I've done this is so I can show you guys what works for me and what mistakes I've made along the way.

Bit of information at me. I'm around 5'5", lean, intelligent and tanned. I've realised from a young age that because of my lack of height lol, which we all know is probably the most attractive feature for a man to have, I've had to adapt and work on my sense of humour and personality. I haven't got the pretty boy looks but have more of the alpha male looks. Women tend to like this based on my past experience. I've dated numerous women that are taller and once the the potential height issues are put away all runs smoothly. I tend to not take myself seriously and kind of take the piss out of my height early on ish as a joke so I show a bit of confidence within myself to not care about it.

One issue that I do have with women is, I'm a one trick pony! When it comes to a one shoot kill (finding a girl and bedding her asap) I do that fantastically. This year I've slept with 20 or so women. All 5 and above! At present I'm sleeping with 2 different women on a weekly or every other week basis, in effect they're both friends with benefits. To keep yourself mentally stable during these times its paramount to always stay in the game and be on the look out for other women and not get oneitus..

This is easier said than done though. At present I've met this hot chick who's an 8 out of 10. We're both attracted to each other have been on a date and planned to meet next week. We haven't slept with each other as of yet. Work in progress haha. She seems like potential long term relationship material but only time will tell.

My game (I'm open to critism so feel free to tell me any prOlems):

I'm always polite but not too polite..
I'm always energetic and spontaneous
I'm quite a touchy person so I will always randomly touch just to increase the connection

One thing I do need to improve is my messaging game. I mean I can hold a conversation, be funny, etc but one thing I don't want to be doing is being brutal like some on this board where they say only message to arrange dates etc but I don't also don't want to talk to much to the point where they lose interest
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Receptacle Filler

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Why ltr?

Why are you looking for a LTR if you are gaming? As far as texting, I keep it brief but text for more than just a date. I will text around mid morning to make sure she is thinking about me and primed for when I hit her up late.
 

Jeffrey12

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I'm looking for potentially something with a bit more substance. I mean banging chick's is fun no word of a life but I've been doing that for 4 years. My tactic has always been the sociable banterous character.. Is it always a necessity to keep it brief? Can't that come across as potentially boring?
 
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