"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Real men don't b*tch.

LikRetsam

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There is no prize for second place.

Your entire life is what you make of it. People are what you make of them, right or wrong is what you choose them to be. You chose to play this game now remember why. Remember the rules you set out to play with and stick to them. Remember when you told yourself you wouldn't masturbate, or atleast once a week you'd approach a chick? Are you still doing that? You have a plan fellas, a plan that must never be forgotten.

Don't ever come on this board and tell us of your great destiny only to come back a few weeks later "Sh!t happens". I don't care to hear a loser speak his mind. And no loser's story inspires it's audience. At best, it serves as a warning for others. And that's what you are reduced to "Don't do that anymore, or else you'll become like XYZ". If you undertake this journey to glorify who you are, atleast let your name be remembered for the right reasons. Serve as an example to the world, not a warning.

Why haven't you gotten started on all the things you've always planned to do? What are you waiting for!? LIFE IS PASSING YOU BY! This is high school damn it! Choose your ****ing destiny. No, you don't have time until 12th grade to decide what you want to do, no you can't study a general subject and figure out what you want to do later. You've been straight up lied to. It's now my friends, NOW!!! Life is happening to you and that is the saddest fate of all.

What better place than here? What better time than now?

Get up. You will face opposition. I'll tell you right now, more people fail than succeed. They didn't fail because they chose to fail. They failed because they didn't choose to win. The cards are in your hand. Yes, someone may have better cards than you, but that doesn't mean he knows how to use em better. If you're really here to improve, if you're really here to get somewhere, then GO. Stop thinking and go.

People will try to bring you down, other guys will take your chick and it may even rain. Adapt. Roll with the punches. Somebody sends something your way, send it right back at them. Someone talks **** to you, stand up in their ****ing face, look them straight in the eyes and tell them to get the **** out. It's a question of principal, not of circumstance. Wether the guy could kill you in 3 hits does not matter, all that matters is that he is not better than you. And you are going to let him know.

Dare to achieve. Dare to become more. Dare to take control of your destiny. Adapt to the world or make the world adapt to you. The choice is YOURS. But stick to it. Your choice is your bible. Stick to it no matter what. Don't dress well for a week and then dress like crap cause you're not feeling good. People won't remember the days you were beautiful, they will remember the days you were ugly. So let people feel funny when they think of you and desperatly look for a fault but find nothing. Let them shut the hell up when you step into an argument and say "This isn't right".

Real men don't b*tch.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ha.. nice post man.. most people on make a to do list and never do most of it.. :p that reminds me i got some prep work left!
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam


Dare to achieve. Dare to become more. Dare to take control of your destiny. Adapt to the world or make the world adapt to you. The choice is YOURS. But stick to it. Your choice is your bible. Stick to it no matter what.
Good stuff.


However, I believe that it is impossible never to fail. Sometimes giving your best isnt good enough. There will always be someone better.

If you give something your absolute best but still manage to fail, then i believe it isnt failure as long as you get your lesson out of it and still strive to be better. And as I have learned, these things make you stronger.

"I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying" -Michal Jordan
 
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inspiring, and thats why im saying bump
 

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Hey, look at all those great responses ^^

Lik, you should make posts about all my amazing qualities more often, this is good for youre rep =)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: Re: Real men don't b*tch.

Originally posted by Kidd
Good stuff.


However, I believe that it is impossible never to fail. Sometimes giving your best isnt good enough. There will always be someone better.

If you give something your absolute best but still manage to fail, then i believe it isnt failure as long as you get your lesson out of it and still strive to be better. And as I have learned, these things make you stronger.

"I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying" -Michal Jordan
Failure occurs at a first attempt. These things make you stronger, as you succiently put it. So give it another go.

As I always say: "Impossible is impossible." (- Kyle a.k.a. "Fitch")

Lik:

Strong point.

"There is no prize for second place." There acually is, but nonetheless I am going to go work on my first place prize. Enough talk...
 

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Re: Re: Re: Real men don't b*tch.

Originally posted by Fitch
"There is no prize for second place." There acually is, but nonetheless I am going to go work on my first place prize. Enough talk...
There is no prize for second place. Who was the second person to set foot on the moon? We don't care.
 

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If you came second it just means you were the first loser......

Good post. Something that really hit home with me.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Real men don't b*tch.

Originally posted by Fitch
"There is no prize for second place." There acually is, but nonetheless I am going to go work on my first place prize. Enough talk...
in the ancient greek olympics they didn't give out second place things. It was either first or nothing.

good post nonetheless
 

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Great stuff Lik, extremely inspiring.

While it's on my mind, try downloading some great aussie music ;) It reminds me of your post.

Jimmy barnes - No second prize
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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