"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Real life scenarios and openers

pineapple

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Have you ever seen a girl trying on clothes at a store, sitting on a park bench, parking her car etc. and wished you could think of a great opener line that wouldn't be creepy, and would allow for a conversation to develop?

Well I always do, I know there's always the simple 'hi'. But I was wondering if people here could post their experiences with these situations and the openers that they have used that have been effective.

Thank you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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- I never wear a clock, so asking for the hour will do, but it's difficult to manage from there.
- Asking the way, a building, a certain place, ...
- Tell her you're new in town and wants to know places and new people...
 

zerocelcius

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Are you looking for just openers?
 

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This is good to start with.

I never wear a watch as of late anyway, that time thing sounds gold.

This is just the opener, I'll segue onto other things later.
 

Distant Light

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Here is one I do in taco bell

"Well come to taco bell we have gorditta's, chalupas, crunch wraps"

They bust out laughing and I usually plow from there. I'm now realizing you can say anything and just plow through in order to get into the set.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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