Real Life Example of the power of PUSH/PULL

[skip2mylou781]

i have a feeling that not too many guys use push/pull on women, despite it being one of the most useful things to use on a woman (besides eye contact).

Last night, my fvck buddy called me (only 1 day after we last fvcked too), and she said shes callin just to say hi. I was eating at the time, so i really couldnt talk. I told her im eating some KFC and ill call her later, and she gave me a nice typical girly line - "oh, so ur food is more important than me?"

she did not say this in a bytchy way, but in more of a teasing way, and if theres something EVERYONE here needs to know, is that when a girl pulls a line like that out on u IN A TEASING WAY, then that is an OPEN INVITATION to either do a neg hit, be c+f, or as in this case, do PUSH/PULL.

Anyway, back to the convo......

her: oh so ur food is more important than me?
me: of course........2 second pause.....it tastes better!
(subtle sexual implication)
her: hahaha ohhhhh
me:..........well actually, U taste better! (she knew wat i was talkin about cuz i ate her out good just 1 day b4 this convo).

so in essennce, I PUSHED her away by tellin her my food is more important and tastes better than her...........then i PULLED her back in by telling her she tastes better.....i took her for a short ride on an emotional rollercoaster

and i just wanted to share that example of a real-life application of one of the most coveted techinques to have a chick emotionally hooked - PUSH/PULL!

 

[wayword]

Good example. I like the bait-n-switch false compliments - leaving enough artful pause for them to take effect. It's called a killa crossover that snaps ankles!

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea push/pull has one of the best effects on these emotionally-driven creatures we call women....and its especially useful over the phone where u cant use eye contact or kino........its wat keeps their emotions satisfied, aka NOT bored - i want others to post their real life applications of push/pull

 

[DonJuanForever]

Espi, that replace didn't make any sense. You could replace his line IF YOU HAVE NOT YET fvcked her. You meet her, give her some type of push or attention, then pull back from her and leave her wanting you to come back, that's when you talk about getting her number or I even have them take mine and make them chase me for a few days leaving messages on my voicemail.

But Espi, he already fvcked her, and he's sitting at the dinner table, why would he use your line right there?

Lol, sometimes you guys who think you know everything just don't make even a lick of sense, lol.

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea my line does work ALOT better cuz a)i imply sex in a subtle manner by saying SHE tastes good (gunwitch), and b)it made her laugh and turned her on subconciously

the PULL line needs to be related to the PUSH line.....and ur pull line had absoloutely no relation to the push, sorry

 

[Latinoman]

her: oh so ur food is more important than me?
me: of course........2 second pause.....it tastes GREAT! {note how I replaced "better" for great}
her: hahaha ohhhhh
me:...hold on.... {licking the food}....{looking up...smiling and looking onto her eyes}...but it doesn't taste better {wink}.


See the difference? I didn't second guess myself (that's why I replaced "better" for "GREAT". Because there is no doubt in my mind that although the food tastes great...that she tastes better)

 

[DonJuanByNature]

He Has A Good Point... I Improve On It

her: oh so ur food is more important than me?
me: of course........2 second pause.....it tastes better!
(subtle sexual implication)
her: hahaha ohhhhh
me:..........I gotta go...are you busy Saturday night?
.

You can do even better!!.. the KEY is that you already ****ed her.. and if she is emotional as it would seem, you have to mentally abuse her.. so instead of saying i gotta go... say

me:...... Listen, dont ever call me again while im eating.. OK! (do it with a strong serious voic) and then wait another pause...
and then with a laughing tone... say.. "baby, u know im kidding.. u know im hooked... Dont make any plans Saturday, I am going to pick you up around bla bla.... "

See I threw in a little bit of mental abuse.. THATS REAL PUSH.. and then I pulled her in with the "im hooked" making it seem that it is me who is hooked when in reality its her calling, taking the abuse and being hoooked"

LEARN SON :moon:

 

[tmpgstx]

Why is it always up to the guy to emotionally cator to a woman? It should be a two-way street. Alot of stuff on this forum focuses on what the guy can do and if he fails, it was all him ..something he did or said. She has to make an effort as well ..make you laugh once and awhile etc.

This kind of got off topic but wanted to mention. The push/pull thing produces the 'roller coaster effect' - my patent ..lol. We all know how women love roller coaster emotions.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Espi, why did you even type this shyt?

"Hey, thanks for setting me straight, bro...good info coming from a guy who sarges mobile home chicks in his '87 Ford Taurus. And, bro, when you attempt to flame me, please use verbs and nouns correctly. Just let me know if you need grammar help. If you don't get help from me, get help somewhere."

Use verbs and nouns, lmfao. That had to be the gayest comeback of all time.

 

[skip2mylou781]

donjuanforever, dont worry about him, he wouldnt understand