"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Real dirty between my legs

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I take a bath everyday like normal people but i remembered a while ago when i didn't take a bath everyday b/c i was real lazy. I noticed that when i spread my legs, to the left of my penis... not sure whats the term for it... is sort of dirty and black. I tried to use soap to wash it over and over but it doesn't seem to wash off. It sort of looks like a bruise or something to that affect but it really isn't.

Does anyone know what i can do ? I remembered that I didn't wash that part much when i was younger and now it seems to stay like this. Do i need a real good soap or some thing else ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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we'll i think based on what you've said it sounds like some fungus growth near your skin. i know some people get it near their armpits as well (a slightly lighter colour) i'd suggest going to see a GP or something and getting some cream.
 

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It is sort of brown like something real dirty. Texture... it does look like 1 or 2 lines. I think its fungus then. Gp you mean general physician? Cream would be the only way right since soap wouldnt do well bc its been there too long?
 

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yeah i'm not too sure about what it is but based on what you've said and what i know it sounds like that. anyway go see a GP (general physician/general Practitioner) and he/she will probably give you some cream or something. This also occurs in generally overwieght people as well i believe, probably cause of the moisture that gathers in those regions and the lack of air or something ...
 

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about the soap. i'm not too sure..it might work if u soap it up and scrub it with something hard thus ripping your skin off...but i'd imagine that'd get quite painful.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i tried scrubbing it with soap a little hard but it doesn't seem to go away. I am skinny so it has nothing to do with overweight. I remembered about 2 years ago i didn't really wash that area between my groin on the left side that well. I did wash but didn't wash it that much which is why it looks like this.
 

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Its probably fungal. Seeing as its been there a while the discoloration could be permanent, especially if it hasnt spread in a while.
 

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No it doesn't itch. But it seems that i can stick my groin area pretty easy when put my legs together if you know what i mean.

I use olay/dove soap and someone mentioned to stop using those woman soaps. They say to use head and shoulders shampoo as soap. Would you recommend that as a good idea? I will go to doctor this week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Know what they give you for that?.....VAGINA cream. I went and got a prescription for that, and the very cute girl behind the counter told me how to apply it, as she uses it too.:eek:
 

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did you use the vagina cream? I don't mind using whatever as long as it helps.
 
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