This girl is really f'ing with my mind and I need some serious help, otherwise I'm just moving on.
So long story short I met this girl in my mba classes about a year ago but I've acted like a total wuss and yet she seemed to keep coming, I'll spare the details but it seemed clear she was interested and persisted despite my mixed signals. Finally I asked her out a couple of months ago and she agreed but then cancelled the day of and I see on fb she posts a pic of some food at a restaurant @ some dude that night, very annoying. Blah blah blah she asked if I was going to this party on the last day of class so I did and hung out with her there but left me hanging on a text the next day by not responding at all so I quit contacting her and over a week later she called me out of the blue but I didn't answer. Anyways this led to me asking her out. She texted me in the week leading up to our date and seemed pretty interested but I called her the next day to confirm and she didn't answer so I sent a text and she didn't respond. I called her the next day with no answer. She ended up responding more than a day after the text and it seemed like she was cancelling, so I was ready to be done, but when I was trying to cordially yet with a I don't care attitude end the texting she kept texting and then confirmed. The date went well, a nice dinner, and I texted her the next day saying nice time do it again... and she agreed... Had some short texts thru the week and she tagged me in a fb post on thu but on fri I texted her asking how she was doing and she didn't respond for like 6 hours. When she does respond she just says, Hey aron77 how are you? I responded in kind 20 mins later and nothing after that. I wrote her off at that point and 5 days later she texted me, Whats up aron77?
So blah blah blah I asked her out again but on that text she took an hour to respond, so I really regretted it, but then responds saying her battery went dead and throws some days she is free out there. So we set up a date to go ice skating on xmas eve. We texted a little leading up to it and then on sunday I called to confirm with no answer, she has never answered on the 4 or 5 times I've called in the last couple months, so I sent a text to confirm. 5 hours later she texts me back saying she hurt her neck and back so she doesnt' know about ice skating. I didn't respond so an hour later she texts saying we can still go to lunch or dinner. I'm so sick of being left hanging on texts so I just never responded and that is pretty much where it is at now. I'm just ready to move on cuz she doesn't seem that interested. Should I just write her off?
I have no idea where I stand with her. She has done plenty to make me think she is intersted but then she leaves me hanging on texts frequently, sometimes 5 hours to a full day to respond and sometimes not at all, and doens't answer when I call so I now she doesn't seem interested. Then whenever I cut her off she eventually texts me so then I start thinking she is intersted until she leaves me hanging again. And like on the date we went on I thought she was cancelling and I gave her every out cuz I was done but she kept texting and got a little pissy that she thought i was cancelling then that date seemed to go well. Idk I'm confused. I know I acted horribly bad in the beginning but since then I've played it pretty cool and I certainly haven't been all up in her grill or anything.
So long story short I met this girl in my mba classes about a year ago but I've acted like a total wuss and yet she seemed to keep coming, I'll spare the details but it seemed clear she was interested and persisted despite my mixed signals. Finally I asked her out a couple of months ago and she agreed but then cancelled the day of and I see on fb she posts a pic of some food at a restaurant @ some dude that night, very annoying. Blah blah blah she asked if I was going to this party on the last day of class so I did and hung out with her there but left me hanging on a text the next day by not responding at all so I quit contacting her and over a week later she called me out of the blue but I didn't answer. Anyways this led to me asking her out. She texted me in the week leading up to our date and seemed pretty interested but I called her the next day to confirm and she didn't answer so I sent a text and she didn't respond. I called her the next day with no answer. She ended up responding more than a day after the text and it seemed like she was cancelling, so I was ready to be done, but when I was trying to cordially yet with a I don't care attitude end the texting she kept texting and then confirmed. The date went well, a nice dinner, and I texted her the next day saying nice time do it again... and she agreed... Had some short texts thru the week and she tagged me in a fb post on thu but on fri I texted her asking how she was doing and she didn't respond for like 6 hours. When she does respond she just says, Hey aron77 how are you? I responded in kind 20 mins later and nothing after that. I wrote her off at that point and 5 days later she texted me, Whats up aron77?
So blah blah blah I asked her out again but on that text she took an hour to respond, so I really regretted it, but then responds saying her battery went dead and throws some days she is free out there. So we set up a date to go ice skating on xmas eve. We texted a little leading up to it and then on sunday I called to confirm with no answer, she has never answered on the 4 or 5 times I've called in the last couple months, so I sent a text to confirm. 5 hours later she texts me back saying she hurt her neck and back so she doesnt' know about ice skating. I didn't respond so an hour later she texts saying we can still go to lunch or dinner. I'm so sick of being left hanging on texts so I just never responded and that is pretty much where it is at now. I'm just ready to move on cuz she doesn't seem that interested. Should I just write her off?
I have no idea where I stand with her. She has done plenty to make me think she is intersted but then she leaves me hanging on texts frequently, sometimes 5 hours to a full day to respond and sometimes not at all, and doens't answer when I call so I now she doesn't seem interested. Then whenever I cut her off she eventually texts me so then I start thinking she is intersted until she leaves me hanging again. And like on the date we went on I thought she was cancelling and I gave her every out cuz I was done but she kept texting and got a little pissy that she thought i was cancelling then that date seemed to go well. Idk I'm confused. I know I acted horribly bad in the beginning but since then I've played it pretty cool and I certainly haven't been all up in her grill or anything.
