"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think its obvious to both me and my GF that we dont belong together. We had our good times and bad. Shes hurt me bad once and I was never the same. I really care for her and would do anything for her. The only thing I wont do is be unhappy just to stay with her. I know ill miss her being around but its for the best.

Im in it to win it. For me winning is finding the girl I want to marry. I wont settle for anyone. I know what kind of person I am and what i have to offer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She hurt you bad?

She cheat on you or use something you told her in confidence against you during a fight?

Anyway do what you have to do man.

Seems you have thought this out fully and are committed to a course of action.
 
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we started dating 12/31 last year. we knew each other for about 2 years before. at the end of february she breaks up with me. for about a week she still sleeps with me calls me etc. one night all of a sudden i go see her at work and Im like a window pane. no convo. shes talkin to this other guy. the same night she leaves the bar with that guy.
 
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You're pretty emotionally fragile...aka EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO THIS CHICK, WHICH IS MAKING YOU A PILE OF BLUBBERING SH1T.

Tough luck man...you may feel pain, but let this one go...you seem ready to do it.

If you want to hurt her emotionally, I honestly don't give a sh1t. Whatever you decide to do, do it fast...stop wasting time diddling back and forth.
 
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Dang Potbelly, you know that emotional attachments aren't BAD right? Would you marry a chick that you don't have any emotional attachments to, if you would even marry a chick at all? It's only stupid to have an emotional attachment to a girl who's not your serious girlfriend/fiancee/wife. It's also stupid to not be emotionally attached to a serious girlfriend/fiancee/wife. Being a DJ isn't about being a sleazy womanizer.

Baller, I think you got the right idea. You gotta trust your gut on this one, and I'd suggest you take action as soon as possible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im not emotionally fragile. whatever that means. And what would a 19 year old know of the real world. I know where I stand and what I want.
 
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If you think long and hard and realized that she is not the one for you, then move on. The longer you wait, the more it will hurt the both of you. As long as you know what is your long term goals, you will make the right choice. Looks like you understand this from your post already.
 
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NSUballer said:
Im not emotionally fragile. whatever that means. And what would a 19 year old know of the real world. I know where I stand and what I want.
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If you dont know what emotionally fragile means and doubt the perspectives of a 19 year old because youre older, then you probably dont know too much.
 
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Dang Potbelly, you know that emotional attachments aren't BAD right? Would you marry a chick that you don't have any emotional attachments to, if you would even marry a chick at all? It's only stupid to have an emotional attachment to a girl who's not your serious girlfriend/fiancee/wife.
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He was emotionally attached to her while they were broken up just because she gave him sex.

Weak and stupid. I rest my case. Thanks for supporting my view.
 
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Im not emotionally fragile. whatever that means. And what would a 19 year old know of the real world. I know where I stand and what I want.
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You're right. You clearly know more about the real world, which apparently has clear cut generalizations about a person's life experience based on their age alone.

Good you know what you want, now do something about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Baller,
Go with your instinct. If its to work it out, do so at your own risk, and use ALOT of discretion. It can be seen by your (ex)g/f as a sign of weakness on your part, which will cause her to exploit it later.

If on the other hand, you're guy is telling you to run as fast as humanely possible, do so. Break off all contact with her if need be, just move on man and do what makes YOU happy. Don't worry about her or anyone else's feelings, just do it for you bro.
 
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Your fault for taking her back, you should of made it clear with her that if she breaks up with you, that your never going to take her back, and she would of thinked twice before breaking up, just to f*** some other guy.
 
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