"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Reading To Much Into This

Gettinthere

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Since I am considered by most as conservative and have lived in this neighborhood for over 13 years now. I started mowing the yard with my shirt off something I have never done and since this I have noticed everytime I do the neighbors wife will just happen to find something to do in her yard keep in mind she has a helper that cleans her yard and all that stuff but since I started to do this she comes out.

Also, this morning I notce this blonde walking by in short shorts getting her exercise and I have never notice her do this before she was hot.

Reckon they like what they see and want some? Or am I reading to much into this and just get the grass mowed?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_in_making

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give more information. How many times is "everytime"? Does she look at you while she's out? Does she focus on what she's doing? It can be a coincidence.
 

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DJ_in_making said:
give more information. How many times is "everytime"? Does she look at you while she's out? Does she focus on what she's doing? It can be a coincidence.
Good question. I may mow once every 3 or 4 days sometimes on a Tuesday sometimes on a Saturday or Monday depending on where it falls or when the grass needs cut and she comes out and will be in the same area bending over like she picking weeds or something.

Now today it was the first time I mowed in a week and what happens? Boom she pops up in the same area. Now as far as telling if she is looking my way or whatever I don't really know as I just cut the grass but I don't know what shes doing after my back is toward her and then today this blonde shows up walking in front of the house in short shorts dam I love those things>wink.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Serialized3

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Yeah using your neighbor's wife as a target is an excellent idea.
 
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