"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Reading the Signs

mackdaknife

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The more approaching I do, the more experience I gain reading women's body language signals. For instance, if a chick is into you, she will become physiologically aroused and will give signs of sexual interest that she cannot control:

1. she will stutter. Sexual anxiety will cause nervousness, which will interfere with normal speech. If she stutters and gets nervous talking to you, she is sexually interested.

2. If a girl is "too aroused" she may turn her back on you. That is, if she gets aroused and her physical features such as face turning red, pupils dilating, nipples getting hard are embarrassing to her. Or, if her seeing you turns her on too much, she may turn her back to you, to prevent herself from being embarrassed.

Edit: 3. They will look down, too afraid to look you in the eye.

These are just some of the signs I'm discovering. I'll write more later.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Inexperienced women tend to show these qualities when being approached by a man that she is interested in. You won't see all these signs with women who have been "around the block" in a sense.
 

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I disagree. Sign reading is almost a forgotten art around here. Women of every age, of every experience have tells...Just like poker players. Doesn't matter how long they've benn in in the game but it matters how well you manage to notice these things. I've been around real pro fremales and it's different then catching the ones who are less experienced. From time to time you'll catch signs off one who's been reading you at the same time and you have a mutual understanding from that point. It's down hill from there for both of you since you're pretty much on the same page.

It's a more of an art then a skill once you've got the hang of things and a solid hold on your game.
 

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Learning these sign are great but don't get to obsessed with reading body language because you'll began to hang on to every gesture a women makes which can become detrimental to overall process.

You'll began to believe that a women has to do these gestures all the time in order to be intrested in you.
 

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Those signs also could mean she is turned off by you and uncomfortable. If she is interested she will look at you, not turn away. She might act nervous but she will want to see you. Sometimes the best signs or when she is not right next to you. Gives you a chance to see if she looks at you, if she smiles, how long she keeps her glance. It is always good to catch a girl looking at you. I just know in my life body language is not always reliable.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mackdaknife

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One thing about analyzing IOI's is you can actually see into someone else's mind.

For example, there's this hot chick I kinda developed one-itis for. When I see her, I look at her over my shoulder, then turn away and turn my back to her when she catches. Exactly what girls do to me. So I know they are both very nervous and very attracted.
 

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Stuttering can definitely be taken as IOI because it's indicates nervousness.

As for looking down, that can be an IOI too, probably among those who are less confident. A few months ago, I was on a date with a girl I had feelings for and I was looking down because I was nervous.

However, that could go either way, she might just not be looking at you because she doesn't care.
 
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