Reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi has changed my life

[self_is_an_illusion]

The biggest change I’ve noticed has been my ability to maintain a healthy detachment from any specific woman I’m interested in, romantically or otherwise. In the past, I would find a girl I liked, and if she reciprocated the feelings, I would obsess over her. I’d put all my eggs in one basket and lose my mind if she didn’t text or call me back. However, after learning about the abundance mindset, I’ve come to realize that I am the prize. If these girls are upset that I’m talking to other girls, that’s their problem.

I feel so free now. I’m not weighed down by a cuffed, monogamous relationship where every single action is scrutinized. If I’m not in a committed relationship, there’s no issue of cheating, and I appreciate this sense of liberation.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I’ve come to realize that I am the prize.

That´s the spirit!

 

[BoostedArrow]

That's great bud.

 

[soulforge]

You are the prize.. and if she doesn't appreciate that.. kick her ass to the curb.