"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reading the Entire DJ Bible.

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Been going through a bit of a dry-spell lately, so I decided that I am going to read the DJ Bible in it's entirety. I am thinking it will not only put a lot of things into perspective for me, but also help me develop a more positive mindset. I had a bad day the other day and decided to read a few articles in it. The first one I read reminded me of a very important phrase that I had forgotten for a long time. "You are the great catch." As soon I read that I started feeling better despite being in a bad situation. I must have said to myself 500 times in the last two days and I feel that I am starting to get on track to getting my mojo back. If that one article is an indication then I can't wait to see how much the whole DJB helps me get back on track.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good - keep updating on how it's helping you. Hopefully others will follow.
 
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Yeah, I always read the DJBible or the Book of Pook when I need to get in the mood. Always gets me motivated to try new things and to do stuff.
 
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