Reading much on this forum is making me less rational and more negative

[LittleBigOne]

Last few days it went completely wrong with me. Having this crush on this girl from work was driving me crazy. I was reading on this forum and searched for answers for not getting in the friendzone and how i should get her more attracted to me.
The more i did the more i got confused, i just couldn´t handle the information especially the contradicting opinions. Result the last two days: i felt awkward, frustrated and very negative around the girl. i even felt angry to her. I wasn´t rational anymore.
Now, i had to come back where i came from. I wrote down where my frustration was coming from and my behaviour the last two days (didn´t talk to her, didn´t know what to say, backing off).
Then i started to rationalize: she is having her bf, let him having the (boring) relationship AND her bad moods. Enjoy her company and enjoy myself without negative thoughts in my head. Just gonna ask her to go to the playground and have fun right there.
Now i feel much better and i have the idea it´s gonna be okay, whatever what happens, friendzone or not.

 

[coochieman]

So you weren't having fun together before ?

Just know about "ONE-ITIS" bro, Also know that its REAL.

Good you know about.... INTERACTING WITH A LADY WITHOUT TOO MUCH EXPECTATIONS. [This might be hard for you to pull off now, since you seem to have invested too much emotionally on this babe.]

Well, I'm also giving you the benefit of reasonable doubt that you are fully aware it takes as much or more balls to "walk away" without tantrums and no hard feelings if thing do not go as planned than to approach.

GoodLuck.

 

[coochieman]

So you weren't having fun together before ?

Just know about "ONE-ITIS" bro, Also know that its REAL.

Good you know about.... INTERACTING WITH A LADY WITHOUT TOO MUCH EXPECTATIONS. [This might be hard for you to pull off now, since you seem to have invested too much emotionally on this babe.]

Well, I'm also giving you the benefit of reasonable doubt that you are fully aware it takes as much or more balls to "walk away" without tantrums and no hard feelings if thing do not go as planned than to approach.

GoodLuck.

 

[Nicholas]

You are making yourself negative, you can rationalize as much as you want but you won't get rid of frustration and emotions that way. You are here like 6 years, why are you still struggling with basics like friendzone?

Putting pressure upon yourself will mess up your chances.

 

[wilford]

it´s gonna be okay, whatever what happens, friendzone or not.

Yeah haha sure....