"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Reading faces?
- Thread starter crossboss
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
In addition to using it for fun, it will be a great conversational tool, wether you use it to open, to extend conversation, or to set up a future meeting. Good luck.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Yes, watch the news anchors with volume off, or better yet, watch soaps with the volume off. I like watching Novelas, the spanish soaps because there is all kinds of drama and emotions, and you can pick up a lot of info just from the non-verbal language.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
Someone reporting a real incident will tend to use more body language when recalling the situation, and look up to empty space when imagining/remembering. A liar will be more direct, and possibly hold eye contact too much to compensate for the idea that liars avoid EC.
Despite what's coming out of their mouths, involuntary nods or shakes of the head can be a good guide to what the person is really thinking.
Men perform much worse than women in recognising emotional states from non-verbal cues. Some people can't tell embarrassment from fear from arousal, which must be a real handicap in social situations. There's probably a site somewhere on the internet to test your skills but watching soap operas or the news with the sound down sounds a good idea too.