"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i need help reading this one chicks body language. I talk to her sometimes and i tease her and try to be funny around her, but whenever i see her in the halls and i say hi she always says hi and then looks down and whenever she ever stops to like hug me or some ****, she always looks away. but around other guys she seems happy around, but not around me, I really dont understand it, am I doing something wrong?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr_rogers

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we all eat food said:
i need help reading this one chicks body language. I talk to her sometimes and i tease her and try to be funny around her, but whenever i see her in the halls and i say hi she always says hi and then looks down and whenever she ever stops to like hug me or some ****, she always looks away. but around other guys she seems happy around, but not around me, I really dont understand it, am I doing something wrong?
I could be wrong, but to me, that just sounds like she doesn't like you. *shrugs*
 

Dante3214

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I don't know, but for some reason she's insecure.


I think you should ask, if that's your style.
 
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...hate newbs giving advice before readin the bible but anyways it looks like she's shy and don't have confidence to keep lookin in ur eye. All girls look away when they hug if your her FRIEND... if she seems sad around you and happy around others it's quite obvious your doing something to make her sad=unattracted to. Just don't worry about body language that much it's only useful when your flurting and doing pickups.
 

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we all eat food said:
i need help reading this one chicks body language. I talk to her sometimes and i tease her and try to be funny around her, but whenever i see her in the halls and i say hi she always says hi and then looks down and whenever she ever stops to like hug me or some ****, she always looks away. but around other guys she seems happy around, but not around me, I really dont understand it, am I doing something wrong?

Hmm, well you will get that a lot. Since I been in High School i meet all kind of girls, Ugly, Beautiful, smart, Stuped. They always seem weird for us. Sometimes they will Share their whole life with you, and the next moment they ignore you:eek: . And you always stuff your mind with all the garbage that is false. You always start thinking "Ohh my, she doesnt like me anymore" She is falling for another guy" But what you should really do, is try to understand women. They are like that becouse 1) They are women and have different problems than we do 2) a lot of guys approach them, and they cant accept all of the guys 3) She might be bisexual, or a lesbian 4) Maybe you smell bad?? 5) She is a WOMEN When i was a freshman in High school i always though why girls are so fvking weird?? Why sometime they smile to me and sometime they totally ignore me?? Well to know the reason you should become a women :D And a real Don Juan doesnt care about that, he accepts the fact that this is life and shyt happens!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As i've had to say a few times now: It doesn't matter if she likes you or not. What matters is she's cool enough for you to even consider talking to her, let alone being attracted to her. And from what it sounds like, this chick is not worth your time if she's a flake. Next her.
 
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