"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reading....anyone else here not into it at all?

Xericx

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Just wondering. A lot of people seem to enjoy reading...I'm not one of them. I think its partly due to some of my attention span shortcomings.

I hate reading books, news, even articles in maxim. I look at the gadgets and things like that.

Skipped reading in school...basically winged my responses from the in-class discussions and piecing books together.

Work? I don't really need to read or analyze stuff all that often.

Just wondering.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My attention span has definitely decreased over the years (but the number and scope of my life responsibilities has increased).
I find magazines, and reading stuff on the Internet to be perfect for getting the information I want/need.
Plus, as time goes by I realize that life is precious and short, so I do more "filtering" - ie quicker to drop a newspaper, magazine or book that isn't holding my interest.

But please, don't give up on the idea of being "in the know" and "well-read."

Having a working knowledge of current events and their background, and a good vocabulary puts you in good stead in many walks of life.

Great resources are out there for us. Wikipedia.org, for example, is an amazing free online encyclopedia.
Next time you hear of a person, place or event that you're not familiar with, go to the site and look it up.
 
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diplomatic_lies

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I still read a lot because not only does it teach me stuff, it allows me to use my imagination and creativity.

I think in future, we'll be seeing a decrease in reading (and anything that requires an attention span). As a result, people will become more impatient, jumpy, and bored easily. ADD will become the norm.

oh n mor ppl wil rite lik dis.

However, with the recent rise of readers when Harry Potter and LOTR came out, perhaps the world is not doomed.
 
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