Read this

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Juan

Nov 1, 2012

When girls I meet dont seem intereseted,I just delete their phone number...I do this when these *****es be acting funny.Theres a lot of MONEY,***** AND WEED in this world and you shouldnt be worried about some stupid ***** that doesnt like you at the moment.I think all these girls think all guys want to **** them,but I try to friend zone the girls I like hanging out with often and see how things go in the long run...Just be a man of principles and do not let these hoes ride you like a horse.I always try to make myself happy,you should too.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.