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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don Juan

Nov 1, 2012

When girls I meet dont seem intereseted,I just delete their phone number...I do this when these *****es be acting funny.Theres a lot of MONEY,***** AND WEED in this world and you shouldnt be worried about some stupid ***** that doesnt like you at the moment.I think all these girls think all guys want to **** them,but I try to friend zone the girls I like hanging out with often and see how things go in the long run...Just be a man of principles and do not let these hoes ride you like a horse.I always try to make myself happy,you should too.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.