Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sammo

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I'm going to tell you all you need to know, follow these easy to understand yet hard to follow steps and you will be happy and succesfull in all the walks of life you wish.

Step 1: Realisation

I've read it alot around this site "You are capable then more you could possibly imagine, you can get tonnes of girls, you can become rich, you can fulfill your every hearts desire" or something along those lines.

You know what i say to that? No your not, you don't know what your capable of, if you get hit by a bus and become paraplegic (sp?) picking up girls isnt going to be the easiest task in the world especially if you have uncontrollable acne.

We judge ourselves on what we believe we can become, we keep telling ourselves that we can be rich, that we will have that HB one day and not that jerk, let me tell you now: EVERYONE BELIEVES THAT.

Your not better then anyone, people just tell themselves that they will be up the top someday to make themselves feel better because they have nothing.

As i said before, we judge ourselves on what we believe we can do. However, others judge us on what we have all ready done, remember that, you might be a DJ in your mind but in reality, your not and you know it deep down inside.

So now you realise that you aren't anything special, thats good now you are miles ahead of everyone else, what you have to do is not accept it, dont accept the fact that you have no idea of who you can become. Don't accept the lies you have been giving yourself (get mad at yourself), go out there and FIND OUT what your capable of.

Step 2: Procrastination

"Procrastination is the thief of time" - Edward young

"You never know what results will come from your action. But if you do nothing there will be no result." - Ganobi

If you cant act towards your goals RIGHT NOW, then you will be nothing for the rest of your life, you will never be fulfilled. Let me explain, every time you put something off, you are making things a little harder. So if you cant do it now then it will be harder to do it tomorrow, you have to work your way out of the whole you have dug and then begin building a mountain.

You want to know how to reach your goals? I will tell you:

TO BECOME A CHAMPION YOU MUST TRAIN LIKE ONE!

If you dont know how to train like a champion then READ, read the DJ bible to learn how to train like a DJ, read books written by millionares to train like them and train like a bodybuilder to look like one.

It's so simple yet people STILL HAVE PROBLEMS!

Something that might help you: One day at a time, dont ruin the present by worrying over the future or you will just end up having a ****ed up future.

Tomorrow is the consequence of what you do TODAY, RIGHT NOW!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hehe

Summarized:
a) You're not better than anyone else, you've got to put effort into getting girls
b) If you dont act, you dont get results... so dont sit there and think WHAT IF, ACT NOW!!

Good points Sammo :)

Personally, I like to see myself as 'above average' and 'extra special' :cool:



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I believe I am above the rest. I believe I am better then them, smarter then them, stronger then them. And so I have thought, So I have become.
 

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Sammo, everything you speak is the truth, I had the exact same realization, I suddenly realised that i had been deceiving myself all this time, thinking i was better, smarter and stronger then everybody else when in fact i had acomplished nothing, i was really pissed at myself for wasting so much time.

It's funny because i used to think that i was destined for greatness i was a prohet, a messiah i would even tell people this HAhA. I was waiting for something great to happen-----what a tool. I didnt realize at the time that life was the amazing thing and i was missing out.

I think Mike Tyson said " I have the biggest ego in the world but no self estem" that's how i have been untill NOW. Im actually
trying to be smarter---reading books, stronger-------Lifting weights and the best---------DJ bible and it feels alot better

Thanx 2 the don juans To sammo and to myself for realizing how full of **** i was. LOL

"INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THING AND EXPECTING A DIFFRENT RESULT"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thinking you're better than most people isnt always a bad thing. you know the kids at school, the good looking ones that think theyre better than everyone else? the ones that have not a single ugly person hanging out with them? and im sure you all know how you want to be part of that group. i DO think im better than most people and thats because i am!
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
I believe I am above the rest. I believe I am better then them, smarter then them, stronger then them. And so I have thought, So I have become.
Please classify 'The rest', you arent better then the rest, you have a serious problem there my friend. There will always be someone that is smarter then you.. there is always someone that will be stronger then you.. and there will always be someone who gets more girls then you.

All you can do is become the best that you can be, stop procrastinating, thrive in the unknown, enjoy life, etc. I've noticed in your posts that you have made a massive transition in your living standards, your happier, you get more girls, you are smarter, etc. But your aren't 'above the rest'.
 

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Originally posted by guardian
thinking you're better than most people isnt always a bad thing. you know the kids at school, the good looking ones that think theyre better than everyone else? the ones that have not a single ugly person hanging out with them? and im sure you all know how you want to be part of that group. i DO think im better than most people and thats because i am!
Exactly, those good looking guys that think there better then everyone else? People judge them that way because they are good looking, im telling people to stop judging themselves on what they can do and start judging themselves on what they have all ready done.
 

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Originally posted by The Irish Corleone
Sammo you should change your name to Tyler Durden.
Tyler Durden is the exact opposite of what Sammo preaches here.
His philosophies are very nilistic and self-destructive

BBB
 

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Tyler Durden is the exact opposite of what Sammo preaches here.
His philosophies are very nilistic and self-destructive

BBB
With no argument, that is just a matter of opinion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Action

In the end, it's all about action. People say knowledge is power, if this were true then libraries would be the most powerful places on the earth, we know this isnt true. It's when you put knowledge INTO ACTION is when it becomes true power.

"Vision without action is merely a dream, Action without vision merely passes the time, Vision with Action is what dreams are made of" - read it, and understand it.

So many people tell you to "just do it", there are only so many ways you can preach the same message in the end your going to do it. Let me tell you this, your going to keep trying until you eventually do it anyway so stop wasting time and "just do it". People like the idea of having the ability to be whoever they want but they dont like the idea of hard work and dedication. What's happened to men? We need to stop giving exscuses to ourselves or blaming it on others and take the responsibility on our own shoulders.

Action inspires more action, so ACT. You all ready know enough, just put the knowledge into action.

""You never know what results will come from your action. But if you do nothing there will be no result." - Ganobi
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
With no argument, that is just a matter of opinion.
Thinking again, in another light the intentions are the same, only the methods are different.

BBB
 
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