everywomanshero
Master Don Juan
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One thing that has remained a common theme to this site is a steady flock of men who are angry, depressed, and frustrated at their results with women.
They blame race, women, height, and everything under the sun for their problems. Let's examine how rational these thoughts are:
Height: All in all, women prefer taller men. Neil Strauss, a rather unattractive little bald man, picked up many women and this is all well documented. Go to 3 malls in a big city and sit there and watch hotties all day. You will see women of beauty with men of all races and heights. These are just excuses. Go out there and prove it to yourself.
Women are b1tches: Is that right? Do you think the guy she cooks & cleans for and begs to come over and give her an orgasm thinks so? You have to have faith that you can become that guy. And how do you become that guy?
Stop focusing on ONE woman. There is a lot of fish in the sea, and over time one will become a better fisherman. You *have* to go fishing several times a week even it;s just one cast while shopping or standing in line, you have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Try to insta date by moving them to a bench or something for at least 15 minutes before timebridging. If thats not possible, then at least you tried and will still learn something from it.
Stay busy: Hit the gym, be out at bars/malls/etc, make friends to hang out with, don't sit around and ruminate about women.
Take massive action. If you're in such bad shape that you cannot initiate at least one fishing trip a week, then I think seeing a consouler would be a good idea.
They blame race, women, height, and everything under the sun for their problems. Let's examine how rational these thoughts are:
Height: All in all, women prefer taller men. Neil Strauss, a rather unattractive little bald man, picked up many women and this is all well documented. Go to 3 malls in a big city and sit there and watch hotties all day. You will see women of beauty with men of all races and heights. These are just excuses. Go out there and prove it to yourself.
Women are b1tches: Is that right? Do you think the guy she cooks & cleans for and begs to come over and give her an orgasm thinks so? You have to have faith that you can become that guy. And how do you become that guy?
Stop focusing on ONE woman. There is a lot of fish in the sea, and over time one will become a better fisherman. You *have* to go fishing several times a week even it;s just one cast while shopping or standing in line, you have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Try to insta date by moving them to a bench or something for at least 15 minutes before timebridging. If thats not possible, then at least you tried and will still learn something from it.
Stay busy: Hit the gym, be out at bars/malls/etc, make friends to hang out with, don't sit around and ruminate about women.
Take massive action. If you're in such bad shape that you cannot initiate at least one fishing trip a week, then I think seeing a consouler would be a good idea.
