alphawolfx
Senior Don Juan
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alright, then you can say "for most rules there are exceptions" and then you no longer have a paradox. 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
READ THIS before requesting a new forum or making a suggestion...
- Thread starter diablo
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Bumpadump.
Mr. Mystery II
Senior Don Juan
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I missed this the first time around.
Bump.
Mr. Mystery
Bump.
Mr. Mystery
todesangel2
Banned
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someperson1987
Don Juan
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Do you have no hobbies.....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
this is his hobby. BTW just leave the trolls alone they leave after no one bothers with them or until Allen gets on.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Bump.
diablo
Master Don Juan
sticky sticky where art thou sticky...