"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read These Two Books And You'll Never Need This Forum Again

NorPacWolf

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1. Mystery's Venusian Arts ebook.
2. Juggler's How To Be A Pickup Artist.

These two books, in conjunction with the DJ Bible will answer 99% of the questions posted on this board and others, and 100% of the useful questions. Plus, you won't have to wade through the b.s. posted by pimply faced 15 year old keyboard jockeys posing as pickup artists.

I know it's addicting and fun surfing the web and posting in anonymity, but if your time is valuable, pick up both books right away. I could've saved myself nearly a year of misery in picking up women's cues of interest (IOI's) with Mystery's ebook for instance. Take the plunge and your game will pickup big time, ASSUMING you actually go out into the field.

And no, I am not a shill. But quality is quality and garbage is garbage.

The (Big Bad) Wolf
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheFlyingMan

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I agree, but I would also add Carlos Xuma's Alpha Male and David Deida's Way of the Superior Man to the list.
 
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