"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Read "The Magic Story" and be changed forever

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I just advised a struggling 16 year old young man to google "The magic Story" in another thread, and I thought I would also create a new thread to advise you all to check this out.

This small book is over 100 years old and is therefore free on the web. If you are feeling powerless in your world, this story will change your life.

I previously wrote a well-received thread about your internal Reset Switch (In a nutshell, when you find yourself acting goofy or AFC, you can imediately decide to re-center and hit your Reset Switch and continue in a more empowered state).

This ancient tale is somewhat reminiscent of that thought, but presented in an interesting story format.

Please, my brothers, do yourself a favor and read The Magic Story. It will give you the tools you need to recalibrate your life and to move forward with the ability to increase your confidence at will, on a situational level.

I will now receive your thanks... ;)

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks, LL. That link goes to the short version. The longer version tells how the narrator came to find the story and gives a broader perspective of the practical result of following the advice found therein.

Here's the full story:
http://www.turtlezen.com/magicstory.html

Check it out, guys.
 
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