"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Read "The Magic Story" and be changed forever

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I just advised a struggling 16 year old young man to google "The magic Story" in another thread, and I thought I would also create a new thread to advise you all to check this out.

This small book is over 100 years old and is therefore free on the web. If you are feeling powerless in your world, this story will change your life.

I previously wrote a well-received thread about your internal Reset Switch (In a nutshell, when you find yourself acting goofy or AFC, you can imediately decide to re-center and hit your Reset Switch and continue in a more empowered state).

This ancient tale is somewhat reminiscent of that thought, but presented in an interesting story format.

Please, my brothers, do yourself a favor and read The Magic Story. It will give you the tools you need to recalibrate your life and to move forward with the ability to increase your confidence at will, on a situational level.

I will now receive your thanks... ;)

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks, LL. That link goes to the short version. The longer version tells how the narrator came to find the story and gives a broader perspective of the practical result of following the advice found therein.

Here's the full story:
http://www.turtlezen.com/magicstory.html

Check it out, guys.
 
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