"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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READ THE DJ BIBLE now what???

notdonjuan

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Right i have spent many hours reading and re-readint hte bible but now what do i do? Im in high school so their isnt that many opportunitties in meeting new girls/women...just the wuns that go my school. ' ' ) tankssss
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skel

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and please stop spelling like an idiot. We dont like that ****.
 

Tomatoes

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There is loads of untapped ***** in schools. Use the DJ tactics and skillz on those girls and they will be all over you mate. Read posts on this forum and it will help show you. Self confiedence and aproaching girls is what you need to do.
 

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reading the bible is one thing
incorporating the idea and attitudes it supports into your frame of mind is the real trick. many people read the bible, yet the ones that are great are the ones who act it.

get into the field and put yourself in challenging situations, force yourself to learn to adapt and you will improve. never get comfortable.

oh an quit spelling like you are some brace-faced 12 year old, its not impressing anyone
 

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Remember it's not only about girls. It's about being successful with yourself and around others - no matter if they're guys or girls - in high school or not.

Go out and socialize with everyone.

This is where you start. And with the right attitude you'll see how much you improve. If you go out and live life with the right attitude - every day - you'll look back at yourself and ask yourself over and over again;

what the hell happened?

:cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo

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The fact that you are asking this question shows that while you may have read the DJB, you still haven't learned anything from it. Thread moved to HS forum.
 

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Try harder.

Just think about it.

There are plenty of places to meet girls, clubs, sporting events, cafe's, lunch tables....
 
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