"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey. This may seem to be another 'annoying' post that asks the common question..'how do i get her to like me'? But nonetheless i'm going got post it anyway! it should make an interesting read!!!!!!

Heres my background! I'm a very goodlookin guy (face wise that is, the only drawback is that im a little skinny..i'm working on that needless to say!) I'm at my last year of school, and during this year i have become quite a bit of a 'player'. I joined sosuave in September of this year, and moved through a so called 'cycle':

Last year i was a total NICE GUY/AFC ( i had a few gorgeous girls but always seemed to repel them after a while)

My next step was becoming a JERK! i attracted loads of girls but ****ed them about! i actually had a hb 9 but messed it up due to cheating! (i did however learn from this mistake and now would consider myself a 'GREAT GUY'. Well i hope thats how pook would consider me.

Currently i am doing my final exams and i am looking forward to going to university next year! I feel that it is about time in my life to settle down with a GIRLFRIEND!

ok so now you have heard my background its time to get down to the real substance of the article.

As i mentioned previously i feel it is time to settle down for a girlfriend! and i think i have met 'the one i want to settle down with'. this may be anti dj to dwell over a girl, however i have went through my fair share of women this year..and have concluded that this girl is a rare breed! she is absolutely gorgeous and has an amazing personality!

My question to you is cliche (if thats how you spell it), but im asking it anyway! how do i get this girl to go out with me? i only see her once every 2 weeks or so,..this however could be changed if we got together!
i talk to her over msn and bebo! is there any particular strategy i should use to get her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sure, you walk up to her, chat about whatever nonsense you can think of, ask her #, call 4 days later, and set up a date.

If she denies your request for the #, end of story.

You could also go to the DJ Bible . . .
 

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Do something I never did, and never have done: Ask her out, and go for it. You know the rest.
 
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