The past week, two girls have told me I am a "Good Boy" This felt like a punch to the stomach when it happened both times. In reality, I am some where in between a good and bad boy. Both of the girls had the impression that I follow all the rules and do what I am told. I think they may have stumbled on to my number one problem I have with girls, something I call "False packaging." See, I think girls see me as a good boy but at first but it is not until they get to know me, is when I blow their minds. My ex when I met her thought I was a quiet boy, but then got to know me and found out I was a partyer but had my limits because I find people who are constantly drunk very unappealing. She was a bad girl and I think opposites attracted in that point. I am attracted to genuine girls with a sense of humor. I find bad girls who use their bad home lives to rebel something so tiresome and boring. I think good girls like the ones I seek or the one I just blew it with at work want a bad guy. I am your typical problem on this sight and am about to say something that all of you will chuckle at, but I was raised by my mom to treat girls with respect. See, I yearn for something romantic and uplifting in the love department. But, I also yearn to soothe my needs as a man, I want to get action or sex without a relationship. I have been a memeber of this site and apply the lessons everyday at my job. Even the black dishwasher constantly says "Kevin, you are a pimp. Your confidence is a great thing at your age. The way you talk to girls and just carry yourself." Then my manager says, "Kevin, you are so easy going." I just concentrate on my job because that is what I do. I do find time to talk to girls, I just like making them smile and they do flirt back. Then it comes to the girl I like, I get very aware of what I am doing. I feel like I was back in middle school..A ****ing..*****.
I am going to a club tonight with one of the girls who called me a good boy. Let me break down the two girls who called me that
1. A girl who almost went to rehab and has lost many jobs
2. A woman with a kid who admits to cheating in her previous marriage
I am going with girl#1. A part of me says "hit it or try" the other says "No way, use her to make others jealous"
Please analyze all of this...I am prepared...haha
I am going to a club tonight with one of the girls who called me a good boy. Let me break down the two girls who called me that
1. A girl who almost went to rehab and has lost many jobs
2. A woman with a kid who admits to cheating in her previous marriage
I am going with girl#1. A part of me says "hit it or try" the other says "No way, use her to make others jealous"
Please analyze all of this...I am prepared...haha